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It’s been raining since last night and it isn’t supposed to stop until around midnight, which means I’ll repeatedly have to turn a dry dog into a wet dog. But, (a) it’s currently 45°F with a forecasted high of 54 (= no snow/frozen dog) and (b) work should be fairly quiet today. All signs point toward it being a decent Friday.
I’ve learned that my BFFs have to put down one of their cats. The vet will be going to their place tomorrow. Duke is a senior cat, but his main problem is a severe case of IBS: he’s been hanging in there and mostly still himself for the last 1-2 years (longer than expected due to the extraordinary care my friends have been providing), but he’s been a skeleton for a while – the first time I saw him after the IBS took hold I burst into tears – and his quality of life is now bad enough that they have to let him go. Both BFFs are heartbroken, but HusbandBFF is particularly bonded with Duke and he’s devastated. I asked WifeBFF to let me know if she thinks of anything I can do, but I know him pretty well: he really just needs to have this last 24 hours with Duke, then grieve on his own for a little while. I wonder how the other cat will react. They were adopted at the same time: they aren’t best buddies or anything, but they’ve been together for a long time.
I might ask WifeBFF about getting together for lunch on Sunday (if she’s physically up to it and they’re both emotionally up to it), but otherwise I have no plans this weekend. It will be the second consecutive weekend with no Lego set to build – there isn’t even one on the way! (
) But I’ve nearly talked myself into ordering the TIE fighter, which is the last of the available/regularly-priced Star Wars sets that I’d want. Everything else I’m currently interested in is either backordered or retired (= maybe available via Amazon or eBay or something but $$$).
In the short term, I’m looking forward to having leftover jalapeño and cheddar samosas for lunch.
Me, too! It’s chronic – i.e., there’s no such thing as silence for me anymore – but I’m very lucky in that my hearing isn’t affected (and, therefore, my singing isn’t affected). I’m mostly able to tune it out during the day, especially if there’s music playing or a television on, but it’s always there. Yay for yours getting quieter!
Thanks, but nah. I always e-file via H&R Block; I’m not worried about submitting this weekend.
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My biggest worry when it comes to Bailey (16) is always where she would go if something were to happen to me. My BFFs couldn’t take her, because their son is allergic. I’ve left instructions with my dad and brother for them to contact my ex-BF (who I adopted her with) and his wife, in the hopes they would take her. But if not, rehoming her would be a real challenge. I guess the constant back-of-mind worry about “what if I were to get seriously hurt or die or something” is just part of being single and loving an animal!
(Love the bow tie on Einstein, BTW! )
I’ve definitely already noticed a personal tendency to avoid plans that involve overnights. I don’t feel the need to be 100% homebound (yet), so I’m going to a jazz festival in two weeks and will be going to a vocal jazz convention in June, but that’ll be it for a while (though I might go visit family in NJ sometime in late summer/early fall). And I’m not really willing to be away/board her for more than 3-4 nights. So, I won’t be planning any international travel for a while; anything like that. I’m OK with it, though.
I just heard about that yesterday, and wondered the same thing! I haven’t been to Wendy’s in a while, but I might need to plan a trip sometime…
Absolutely they are! When people talk to us, we partly rely on the visual cues of their mouth movements to aid understanding – more than most of us realize. When people don’t speak clearly (like my brother), or have enough of an accent, those missing visual cues can make phone conversations extra challenging.