Not shocking at all. If hubs will be seen with you, that’s all that matters. I’m guessing he appreciates a little bounce and jiggle. Being comfortable is what counts. Someone (99% likely to be a female) may reach under your shirt (wear a comfy baggy one) to stick on a couple monitor pads but that’ll be it. I wore the softest stretchiest pull on sports bra and a ratty old one at that. No one sees it nor cares either way. Elastic waist baggy old pants, also comfy, completed my ensemble.
The only needle you might see is the wee little butterfly one they’ll put in your hand for your happy juice IV and you can just not look. You can even ask for them to do that after they take away your glasses and put in the first set of numbing eye drops, so you wouldn’t be able to see the needle anyway through the blurry. Just tell the nurse when you first go in that you have a needle phobia and could they pull out all their tricks to help. We nurses very much appreciate being told that kind of stuff early on to make everything smoother for all, rather than dealing with someone trying to guts it through. I tell them about my PTSD right after I walk through the curtain into the cubicle, before I’ve even laid down on the gurney. Just say right off “hey, I have a needle phobia-can we do things so I don’t even see a needle in its packaging?”
You’ll be starving afterwards~tell hubs to plan on taking you to Tudors Biscuit World on the way home.
I’ll be thinking of you and pilot guy all day tomorrow. May the force be with you both and all your nurses like me.