Agree. You’ll find a LOT of OKCupid love on message boards. In my experience, here in the large metropolitan area where I live, most of the women over 30 on OKCupid are very overweight (not in an Internet male “she could stand to lose five pounds, and besides her knees are too sharp” way, but truly quite large), they have more than two children, or they could be best described as “Appalachian.” I would assume the pickings are equally slim for women seeking 30-something men. The quality really isn’t there compared to Match.com.