Laura, for starters, if you know you’re going to be orally involved in advance, TAKE MOTRIN. Go for 800 MG of the stuff, and it’ll do wonders for the TMJ. Trust me on this one. My dentist gets mad if I forget to take my Motrin before going in for a check up, because I pop and complain about it the entire time.
Secondly (aw hell, am I actually doing this?? Miz Scarlet, move over), something you have to remember is that a penis is generally more sensitive near the tip anyway. If your mouth can’t manage the length, go with your strengths, kid. Don’t push it to the pain point for yourself, or no one will have any fun. You have a hand that can make up the difference near the base. Besides, a good sucking action will negate the problem anyway.
Teasing with the tongue and kissing is fine – but rarely produces results. Think about it this way: a man masturbating rarely sits and just taps at himself. He’s going for a full stroke. Use the teasing to get him excited, play if you both enjoy it, but don’t rely on it for an orgasm. There’s a reason why intercourse involves a steady repetitive motion – it works.
Some guys get off on teeth – a very precious few of them. Teeth in such a delicate area make most men very very nervous. Save your nibbling for fingertips. Men make jokes about toothless women with flat heads (to rest a drink on, of course) for a reason.
Watch him. Look like you are enjoying yourself. Smile a lot. Eye contact is a bonus, as it makes the both of you feel like you’re doing something good and right and fun. Don’t fake enjoying it. Like a dog and fear, they can smell boredom. He usually won’t CARE, but that doesn’t really improve your relationship.
The suck: this is an art in itself. Just sucking inside your mouth with your cheeks is going to make you sore before your time, and not get a lot accomplished if he’s one of the men that take more stimulation for longer periods to acheive orgasm. You’ll be too tired to care if he gets off or not. Instead, try more of a swallowing effect combined with it. Even though you aren’t going to suck the entire thing down your throat, the move is a complete follow through, more like a natural stroke instead of a short jerk. Pretend you’re gulping a drink. Feel that long swallowing sensation? Go with it.
And for cryin out loud, “spit” doesn’t mean “spit.” That’s tacky, and won’t win you brownie points either. If you can’t abide the thought of swallowing, just let it flow back out of your mouth and down his penis, or don’t let it into your mouth in the first place.
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Suze – what AM I doing? – anne
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