Tell me about it. My taliwacker turned red and sore for 3 days when I tried that. It was terrible. Every shower after that consisted of stroke, ouch, stroke, ouch, stroke, ouch, stroke, ouch, stroke, ouch, stroke, ouch. It hurt so bad I almost stop masterbating.
/me takes his hand out of his pants long enough to blow Sarah and Yogini a kiss.
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I have this funny feeling (mmm, feels funny!) that NotFake is a previously registered person here. Sort of like the classic: “I have a friend that…”
Any guesses as to who it is? I’m voting manhattan.
Arggh! :eek: Argh!!! :cringes:
Errr… back to the OP, could NotFake be having something analogus to sexual adiction?
Interesting. My DH claims the opposite: that if he goes too long betweentimes, he gets no pleasure, only release.
I would comment that, because of the fluctuation of hormones, there are days during the month when I cannot feel anything at all sexually. Two weeks later, of course, I’m quite the opposite. That won’t help the OP though because being male, in theory, he doesn’t have hormonal fluctuations.
But maybe he does. In which case, why force the issue? If it doesn’t feel good, if the horse is dead, don’t beat it.
(Another alternative, wherein I flog my pet cause (so sue me), is for the OP to consider foreskin restoration. It can increase the sensitivity of the glans, but the new skin will also be ennervated, which is a bonus. More nerves = same sensations, less effort. Allegedly.)
Oh, hell, on occasions, I’ve masturbated so hard and so often blood vessels burst in my penis (they manifest themselves as little, tiny red blotches on the old monster). It’s harmless but the first time it happened, I thought I had done myself real damage. I was wrong.
My point is, you jerk off for lots of reasons–horniness, boredom, anxiety (my personal outlet—if you had grown up with my parents, you’d understand). Self-control is the stupidest, unnecessary, least practical and useless remedy for the practice. In truth, when you’re ready to stop, your body will tell you as will your brain. In short, MERGE WITH THE URGE and enjoy it–your prostate will thank you for it.
Somehow that wasn’t nearly as witty as your first post. 
All this talk is not making me horny.
If this is just a habit, just try to replace it with something else as your bedtime ritual. Reading a book, drinking a mug of hot chocolate, doing 100 sit-ups, whatever. Also, if you sleep in your underwear or naked, consider PJs. And don’t keep tissues near the bed.
But honestly, once a day is not exactly a problem, especially since it’s just before bed and isn’t exactly interferring with your life.
Personally, I’ve found living with my lover kind of stops that kind of thing, mostly by replacing it with a nightly fighting-for-the-duvet ritual…and lots of sex.