So is it possible to make the penis longer or wider? The billions of emails in my inbox certainly claim it possible, but common sense tells me otherwise. Common sense in that if it were possible, every male in America would have an eight inch tallywhacker.
Oh… and I’m just asking… you know, for a friend. 
Only if you have a Penis Mighter.
Unfortunatly, Alex Trebek refuses to sell them.
I have heard of two actual techniques that do work.
One is to increase girth. Strips of fat are taken from the thigh or buttocks and implanted into the penis.
The method to make it longer involves cutting the ligament that holds it up. It will increase the length an inch or more, but will hang down from then on.
And there was a rather graphic article in Details magazine (IIRC) about 10 years ago on what happens when those surgeries go wrong. One poor bastard had to have multiple surgeries to fix the problems created by the enlarging “surgeon” and still had problems (including the humiliation of having women tell him it was so ugly looking that they wouldn’t sleep with him). I’ve heard that losing weight can allow more of your meat stick to protrude, but don’t know if that’s accurate or not.
My gf makes my penis longer and wider on a regular basis, although it is a temporary change.
Honestly, how long do folks want it?
Bottoming out isn’t fun for either party. All in is best (IMO )
Wider, perhaps, but unless it’s been damaged, or the buddies are getting disconnected, there is NO CHANCE anyone is EVER going after my goodies with a knife!!!
Speaking as a girl, I fully don’t understand why so many men seem to get all bent out of shape on the subject.
Unless you’re fairly significantly under the average, it just doesn’t make that much of a difference. And unless you’re a selfish bastage who gets his and leaves his partner hanging (so to speak), what’s an inch here or there? From my personal perspective, it’s the “selfish bastage who leaves his partner hanging” part that’s a REAL problem.
Once upon a time when I was young and foolish I was discussing the topic with a male friend who earnestly longed for equipment nearing a foot in length. Which caused me to give him a horrified look and a quick lesson in the geography of a lady’s fun bits. Where did he think that was all going to fit anyway?
Given that it’s probably a minority of women who can come as a result of straight up intercourse (even with a nice big wang), what’s the point? Most women need clitoral stimulation to come, and on most women the anatomy is such that penetration doesn’t really provide that (kama sutra-esque positioning aside.) Not only that, but it’s not at all rare for a guy whose cock is slightly above average to simply not fit in a woman whose cooter’s on the small end.
Stick your fingers down there while you’re going at it. Give your partner the kind of stimulation she actually wants. In certain cases, porn films have been known to be inaccurate in their depictions of female sexuality, and the whole “chicks want monster cocks” thing is one of those cases.
Besides, learn to give good oral sex and most women will be happier than they would be with a guy who had a great big dick and lasted for hours.
Plus, no, there’s no way to do it beyond what sounds like an absolutely terrifying surgery.
Here’s an account of a patient who underwent penis enlargement!
I’ll second Aangelica’s comments on this one. The first time I saw a porn movie where the man had a huge penis, I could only gasp “that’s GOT to hurt”!
Every girl says that it should only be a problem if “you are significantly under the average”. Even if we define that as the bottom 10% in size that still leaves many millions of men whose size turns off the average woman. I think that if an effective method was developed it would be the single most common cosmetic surgery performed in the US.
Not to mention that no one is really clear on what average is anyway. All we know is that by definition half of the people are below that line. I won’t even get into the poor souls who have micropenii. I would however, suggest that most women are turned off by the size of at least 25% of the penis having public. That is not an insignificant number.
And yet, in a real relationship, a lot of folks will make room for the ways in which a partner is not ideal. Get good at giving head or using your fingers if your penis doesn’t measure up. Besides, there’s not all that much variation, according to what I’ve read, in penis size. Very small penises do exist, but the great, great majority of men are between 5 and 7 inches erect. Obsession with increasing one’s penis size in men is simply far more common than a problematically small penis. The fact is that most women don’t want eight inches, much less the frightening extra limbs you’ll see in porn movies.
Men with seriously small penises have my sympathy, of course. It’s gotta suck, and cases like those are the ones that do justify the surgery (which is at least somewhat effective). But they’re a relatively small percentage of the population, and it’s worth pointing out to the guys lurking just around or below average that most women aren’t looking to be AST0NICHD BY 10 INTCHE5 0F HARD C0C; they might as well not be made to feel inadequate for something that’s simply not an inadequacy.
You’ve confused mean with median.
Well there are some women (and men for that matter) who are as they say “size queens” and make that preference known and I’ve known a few. It doesn’t exactly help a guy’s ego when his date says “what’s ten inches long and white? Nothing.” Needless to say we didn’t date after that as she wasn’t just making a joke. While she may be in the minority I think that has a much bigger psychological impact on men’s self perception than the huge number of women who aren’t into the big ones.
She said she wanted ten inches and and wanted it to hurt so I &%$ed her twice and gave her a noogie.
*or as you prefer, bonk on the head, indian burn, wedgie, dreaded rear admiral or the crowd pleasing titty twister.
Dam premature posting, GRRRR! Anyway, something related to the topic for your amusement.
That’s my new favorite joke.
Sure, why not? There’s fat in the pelvic region, so the more fat you are the less is exposed.
The facts in my case:
Yes, it is possible.
I know because I did it. I asked my wife if she would like me to be bigger. After a couple of weeks of thinking about it, she said “yes”. Since that time, I’ve done exercises that I read about on several different free enlargement forums for over three years, and I’ve gained an inch in girth, almost an inch in length, and that comes to, for me, about an extra 60% in volume. I get harder erections now and they stay that way, as well.
I haven’t tried the pills, so I don’t know if they work or not.
Personally, I wouldn’t have the surgery done.
Now for my opinion:
Of course, enlarging has really changed how intercourse feels for my wife and I. I will say that not a day goes by that she doesn’t say at least once to me that she appreciates the difference. For me, that alone makes the effort worthwhile.
With a larger penis, I’ve noticed that I need to be careful how I use it. I can’t just “stick it in” like I used to, I have to work it in slowly, and watch my angle.
A poorly wielded big penis is a bane to a woman. One used well will make her feel things she didn’t know were possible, and I mean that in a good way. I’m pleasantly surprised at how vocal and responsive my wife has become now during sex. Honestly, I was so surprised mainly because so many women claim that size makes no difference. Not so in our case.
The idea that women don’t feel much at the end of their vagina has also proved untrue for us. My wife loves the feeling of it pushing against the end of her vagina.
Many times I’ve heard women compare lovers of different size. But, a more fair comparison is the same lover with a different size penis. Simply put, my wife enjoys sex much more with me now that I am larger.
The thing to remember if you are large–it can be a blessing or a curse, depending on how you use it. You MUST be gentle at first, take your time, and work around the cervix area—preferably under it, then behind it. A woman with a healthy uterus will usually enjoy having her cervix area massaged if it is done right, but NEVER just banged into. She’ll likely be sore for days if that happens. If she has a sensitive uterus because of very common problems such as cysts or endometriosis, an average 6 inch penis will likely be painful to her at times. My wife has been through that herself.
Painful sex usually means a trip to the gynecologist may be in order.
If I was smaller and didn’t care to enlarge, personally I would angle my penis up during missionary position intercourse in order to massage her g-spot, which is only a couple of inches inside, and on the topside of the vagina.
I also think that a man who is either very small or very large probably needs to spend extra effort perfecting his technique because each has its unique difficulties.
Remember, most of what I’ve said is only my opinion or experience, and I have no desire to leave anyone feeling insecure or hurt about their body or their opinion. I also don’t want to belittle another person’s views, or intimate that they are wrong. If I’ve done that, please just forget what I’ve said and move on. Where I’ve seen this topic discussed, it can be pretty volatile, but I think there is a way to keep this subject positive and pro-active.
Oh, and for harder erections, I recommend doing kegel exercises before getting any viagra or cialis. It’s a healthy alternative, and it really works.
Erm… not exactly asking for a cite, but can you elaborate on whatever techniques you used?
Most enlargement exercises fall into one of three categories:
*Stretching or pulling type exercises for increased length.
*Squeezes for girth
*Jelking or milking type exercises for length, girth, and circulatory health.
Warming up and warming down are recommended to help avoid undue stress.
Kegel exercizes won’t give you a bigger penis, but are great for prostate health, erectile firmness, staying power, as well as urinary continence. Doctors often recomment doing them for that reason.
It’d take alot of space here to tell you exactly how these excercises are done, but the very best info can be found on enlargement boards, several of which are free and informational, just like this one.
I’ve done about all of the exercizes at one time or another, except I haven’t tried hanging weights yet, and I don’t know that I ever will. Personally, I think it might be a little risky, though others have had very good success with it.
I don’t know whether or not I should name sites here, so I’ll just suggest doing a google search for : free enlargement forum
The top result is the forum I spend the most time at.
I’ve belonged to paysites before, but I like this one better. It runs on donations.
Actually, any of the forums that I have visited give satisfactory enlargement instructions and advice.