I know this girl at school. I’m not really interested in her, but I do like to hang out with her because she has some big tits. Anyway, her boyfriend’s friend says that he’s going to tell the girls boyfriend that I’m hanging out with her. He says he’s going to kick my ass. I’m not afraid of fighting this guy because I know that I could kick his little bitchass with ease. But what the fuck is wrong with hanging around somebody. People don’t have to be so fucking protective. Especially if nobody is after their shit. Besides, it’s none of this guys fucking business who I hang around with. WTF!?!?
Does the boyfriend/boyfriend’s friend know you’re hanging out with her because she “has some big tits?” That might explain things.
No. That isn’t the only reason though. She hangs out with the rest of the group that I hang out with. It’s not like I follow her around or anything.
Personally? I think you have it coming.
:rolleyes:
Why? I’m not the only guy that hangs around her. Plus, she isn’t the only female in the group. She is just the only one with a boyfriend. Why do you take their side?
Ring ring ring–you’ve stated that you hang out with her due to her rather impressive breasts. The only way to accurately gauge the quality of a woman’s (in this case I would use the word ‘girl’ I guess) breasts is to look at them. This skill is something that improves with age, i.e. an older man would be able to accurately evaluate a female’s breast with a glance, a younger male (such as is obviously the case here) would need a longer period of time to do so. So–the guy probably noticed you looking at his girlfriend’s breasts and has, accurately I might add, determined that you like them (you’ve said yourself you admire them). He has, in typical adolescent fashion, decided to forestall any attempt to ‘steal his woman’ by threatening you with physical violence. You ever get the feeling you’re living in a cage with a bunch of chimps?
Anyway, hopefully at some point during your life you will come to the stunning revelation that there is more to a woman than her breasts (yes, I realize you probably don’t believe me but trust me, it’s true) and all this will be moot.
Have a nice day.
Thanks for the advice Wabbit . I am pretty good at those quick glances. I don’t think that the boyfriend is mad because about that because he hasn’t seen me starring, along with every other guy in the group who he hasn’t threatened. My guess is that he thinks I like her because I talk to her. By the way, I don’t think of women as just a set of breasts/other sex organs. That is just one thing that makes women better to be around. I appreciate women for more than that.
PS - It does feel like a big cage of chimps at times.
People are to protective as Breasts are to…
Hey! You stole my line! I was gonna come in here and make that remark 
You know, I’m thinking that someone who doesn’t know the difference between to/too, hangs around girls because they have “some big tits” and thinks that their boyfriends are “bitchasses” because they don’t like it really deserve whatever fate befalls them.
Ringmaster, I counsel that you spend less of your school time chasing females with large mammaries and more of your school time improving your grasp of basic English grammar and widening your vocabulary. Big perky bosoms don’t last; being able to speak and write without making yourself look like an ass will serve you for a lifetime.
Yes, hanging out with male humans is a lot like living in a cage of chimps.
Our current exhibit:
I’m going to the make the wild ass guess that we’re talking teenagers here. Certainly the under 25 crowd, but I’m thinking more mid-teens. So I’m going to cut ringmaster just a little slack because he’s still trying to figure out adult equipment and biochemistry.
OK, couple points here. First of all, it’s OK for a guy to like looking at women with tits of any size, including big. BUT - there is a polite and respectful way to do this. It’s like chewing your food in public - OK, but only if done with good manners. I assume you already know that blatant stares are a no-no - an all over glance at a woman’s appearance, a moving glance that takes in the head as well as the upper torso without lingering in any one spot, could be taken as polite glance. If you have to linger anywhere, linger on her face (but avoid zit areas, if any). DO NOT say “hey, nice tits” as a general rule - if she’s got nice tits she already knows it. Sorry if some of that is basic review, but other young men might be listening who need the refresher.
Yes, folks, I know the young man should hang out with women for reasons other than their mammaries - but let’s be real, guys do this sort of thing, particularly when young. Heck, I’ve hung out with guys I thought looked hot (at least until I determined they were complete assholes). So unless you have no sins, throw no stones…
Jealous boyfriends are something to watch out for, but be careful that this “friend” of hers who is not her boyfriend isn’t trying to start something. After all, this disapproval is secondhand - you don’t know for sure her boyfriend has a problem with you being friendly with this girl. Although you know is what this other guy “said”.
That aside - if she and her current boyfriend are a steady item then yes, he does have some right to be concerned about who she hangs out with. A jealous rage leading to violence is out of line, but if he genuinely cares about this girl then he will want to make sure she isn’t being hassled or threatened by anyone else. And, if she’s cheating on him then yes, he has some reason to be concerned although that doesn’t sound like a problem here.
If you have a reputation for being a creep or taking advantage of women (not that you necessarially do, but as an example) then her boyfriend is going to watch you very closely. If you have a reputation as a good guy who doesn’t steal other guy’s women then maybe this other guy is just trying to stir up trouble.
You can either 1) just play it cool, hoping this was just someone trying to get a fight started for no good reason, and continue on as you have; or 2) go to the girl’s boyfriend and say “so-and-so said you were worried about me being friends with your girl” and try to reassure him that right now it’s “just friends” and you have no intention of trying to “steal his girl”. Which you choose depends on you and also what her boyfriend is like. Either way, you still might end up in a fight - which might even be what you want.
But keep in mind women, in general, have one of two reactions to men who fight over women:
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you’re a violent fuck-up and she won’t have anything to do with you, or
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she likes having men fight over her because she’s a sick fuck-up and if you hang around her any length of time expect to get into more fights. So, if you hang out with a chick like this just because she has big tits, keep in mind she might be hanging out with you because she likes to see you bleed.
Your life, your choices, ringmaster. Try to make some good ones.