Before answering, note that I am NOT asking how frequent you and your partner(s)*
lovemaking is (although I plan to include a “we hardly ever make love anyway.” I’m wondering whether you and your inamorata** generally plan your intimate times ahead of time, generally do it on the spur of the moment, or something in between.
Also note that *lovemaking *here means any sort of sexual activity belong kissing, whether passionate, tepid, static, gymnastic, or involving twos. Entirely solo activities don’t count for obvious reasons, but I’d be inclined to rule that things like phone sex & cybersex do.
Poll in a moment. The responses will be private for reasons left as an exercise for the class.
*Hey, there might be poly or two around him. I don’t keep track of these things.
**It occurs to me that that word is sexist in this context, as it assumes only straight men & lesbians are answering. Probably I should have written inamorata/inamorato/ but I couldn’t find the slash key.