Persons with small children: which bathroom do you use?

I have some theories about that. first of all, I believe that kids do NOT think the same ways that adults do. Remember, these are people to whom Santa Claus is perfectly reasonable.

They don’t necessarily know who “Strangers” are. They certainly WOULDN’T be that nice lady there.

Examples from my son (who is bright). Age 2 or 3. Would get on the phone with some one and say “I got a new toy, see?” and hold the phone next to the toy. Pointing out to him that HE couldn’t see the other person did not convince him that this wouldn’t work.

age 5 or 6. He and I had matching shirts from a festival. we were wearing them, and I joked with him that my SO “Wouldn’t be able to tell us apart”. My son was astonished that SO could.

Same age. He’d seen cartoon GI Joe talking about the “dope man” , was convinced that he’d know the dope man. How? 'cause he’d have purple hair cut in a Mohawk (that was what the “dope man” looked like on the cartoon)

When I was 8, I wasn’t allowed to walk through a wooded area by my home “without an adult”. I walked through with my two friends, Stuart and Bruce, since they convinced me that 16 was an adult, Stuart was 8, Bruce was 8, 8 + 8= 16. Made sense to me. I of course, got into trouble.

** Chickenhead ** assuming the reference you made was intentional?

While it’s certainly possible that this particular incident actually occured, you should be aware that this story is a very common urban legend, with many variations.

Snopes has two similar stories on their site – Kidnapping and Mutilation – and I’m sure there are other variations on these stories as well.

The mere fact that it was on Oprah doesn’t make it true; Oprah is getting up there with Abby and Ann among the greatest dissemenators of urban legends.

Yes, insomnia is upon me.

I just came back to tell everything thanks for answering. I definitely think men with little girls have it the worst - going into the women’s room looks weird for them and taking their daughters into the possibly icky men’s is … icky … and weird for the daughter.

This has been my Most Successful Thread! Okay, I’ve only started about three or four, but still … :slight_smile: