If your family doesnt want to tell you something, they pussyfoot around the language and seems to talk behind your back?
I would rather know than have siblings talking behind my back
My sister said everything but, dont come there (to see my mother over Thanksgiving) My mother is living there with her now and does not have a lot of time left to live.
We went to Florida to pick up furniture etc at the apartment my mother was living in. My sister asked three times (emails) if I really should go all the way down there to get the things I wanted. I told her that those items mean a lot to me. Reminds me of my (happy) childhood and my mother.
No, my other sister goes there for Thanksgiving dinner. Did she ask them if they would reconsider?
Why not say what you mean?
Not saying makes me feel bad too. When we were there it seemed as if we were intruding.
Appreciate somewhat frank answers…thanks