I have yet to find a physical imperfection that turned me off in bed. Massive post-surgical scars from breast reduction, (2 different women so far!), razor burn in the worst place, (poor thing), back-ne, 40 extra pounds, body parts trying to explore the floor while standing, none of these things bothered me in the slightest.
The only thing that ever did turn me off was a long while back my GF put on a pair of my “tidy whitties”. She really had no hips, and even her full C cups couldn’t help me to shake the little boy image she appeared as. So I switched to boxers. (Never own anything you don’t want to see your GF wear.)
I guess my biggest turnoff is body hair. Noticeable moustache is bad. Winter-bush is horrifying. (While I prefer almost-bare, any kind of grooming is fine.)
But no…I’ve never associated actual sex with physical appearance. (Porn sex, OTOH, is a whole different can of worms. Body makeup and good lighting is a must.)
Nope. Nothing I can think of. For a few years, I was in love with a woman who had a fairly serious facial hair problem. Her endocrine system went bonkers during her second pregnancy, and never regained its balance ( so to speak. ).
A few months before we met face to face, we were already madly in love, she said she had something to tell me. Much upset in her voice. She was terrified it was a dealbreaker. It was not. I was in love with her through and through. It was ( and I would guess still is ) a terribly painfully difficult thing for her to deal with day -to-day. -shrug- Made me feel badly for her fears, and made me love her just as much.
The times in my life that I have fallen seriously in love, I have not found it to be entirely blind, but somewhat blind. However, that is more addressing the emotional and relational aspects, opposed to the physical aspects.
So goeth my heart, so followeth the Loins of Penultimence.
Don’t understand you guys being turned off by cock & balls. They’re lots of fun to play with; think of how good it feels when someone plays with yours. You don’t have to put part A into slot B in order to enjoy it.
I’ve looked at a lot of porn (I had a depraved childhood) and I’ve seen a few things that I didn’t like though they weren’t really “heinouos” as you say. Deal breakers in the case of love? I doubt it, but it’s a moot point since I’m happily married. Here we go:
some photos I’ve seen show women who have purple-looking vaginas. They’re bluish, which looks bruised to me, and isn’t at all appealing. I’m not talking about bluish pussies on African-american women with very dark skin, that’s OK because it matches – it doesn’t look bruised. But when pale women (of whatever race) have bluish pussies I go eeeeehh.
Women whose breasts have bene augmented to such an extent that they look deformed. Turns me off big time, and I LIKE big tits.
Women with big tats done in black and purple, so that they look more like an injury than a decoration. Generally, large tats tend to look ugly to me.
