In your opinion, which form of this idiom is correct:
Third time’s the charm!
Third time’s a charm!
US Dopers, are you doing anything for Martin Luther King Jr. day tomorrow?
I get the day off and I’m doing something specifically to commemorate MLK or the Civil Rights Movement.
I get the day off, so I’ll have a barbecue or something, but it’s not specifically MLK related
I get the day off, but I’m not doing anything special
I have to work that day, so I’m not doing anything special
I have to work that day, but I’m still going to commerate MLK somehow.
I don’t work, and I’m not doing anything special.
I don’t work, and I’m going to commerate MLK somehow.
Something else, which I will explain in the discussion thread.
Generally speaking, how fortunate do you personally feel in each of these areas? (responses are private)
Your health
Very fortunate
Moderately fortunate
Eh
Mildly unfortunate
Very unfortunate
Other
Your finances
Very fortunate
Moderately fortunate
Eh
Mildly unfortunate
Very unfortunate
Other
Your childhood
Very fortunate
Moderately fortunate
Eh
Mildly unfortunate
Very unfortunate
Other
Your parents
Very fortunate
Moderately fortunate
Eh
Mildly unfortunate
Very unfortunate
Other
Your siblings
Very fortunate
Moderately fortunate
Eh
Mildly unfortunate
Very unfortunate
Other
Your children
Very fortunate
Moderately fortunate
Eh
Mildly unfortunate
Very unfortunate
Other
Your extended family
Very fortunate
Moderately fortunate
Eh
Mildly unfortunate
Very unfortunate
Other
Your intimate relationship(s)
Very fortunate
Moderately fortunate
Eh
Mildly unfortunate
Very unfortunate
Other
Your plans for dinner tonight
Very fortunate
Moderately fortunate
Eh
Mildly unfortunate
Very unfortunate
Other
Well, that didn’t work out very well. Guess I don’t know how to do the polls yet.
I only voted for the ones that I’ve watched and didn’t like. There could very will be, and probably are, some that I wouldn’t like among the ones I haven’t watched.
Gyrate
January 21, 2026, 1:03pm
6517
Does just quoting a poll count as a poll ?
Yes
No
Whatever. Lighten up, Francis.
Leaper
January 21, 2026, 5:24pm
6518
When it comes to romantic relationships with very large age gaps (say, 30+ years), how often do you think money is a primary driver in the relationship beginning or continuing?
Most of the time
A great deal of the time
‘Bout 50/50
Not very often
Rarely
Do you use a sound machine when you sleep?
Gyrate
January 24, 2026, 10:49pm
6520
If you lived in Miami, would it be a Miami sound machine?
Yes
No, that’s just dumb
Just you wait - the rhythm is gonna get you
Leaper
January 25, 2026, 10:17am
6521
Another love and romance question: Have you ever encountered a romantic relationship in real life that rises to the level of fiction and fairy tales in its levels of love, passion, compatibility, respect, etc, as if they were fictional characters specifically written to be an ideal relationship?
Yes, and they/we are still together
Yes, but they/we broke up after a long term relationship
Yes, but they/we broke up after a relatively short time
No, but I’m sure it happens out there somewhere at least once in a while
No, and I don’t think it happens in real life at any meaningful rate
Did you ever wear these as snow shoes when you were a kid?
yes
no
it didn’t snow where I grew up
that’s ridiculous
gkster
January 26, 2026, 12:18am
6523
How many times have you needed to go to a hospital Emergency Room, for yourself and not accompanying someone else?
Zero
One
Two
Three
Four-five
Six-seven
A few times but I’m not exactly sure how many
Multiple times, more than seven
gkster
January 26, 2026, 12:22am
6524
How did you get to the ER? (multiple choices allowed for those who have made multiple visits)
ambulance
a friend or family member drove me
I walked
Uber/Lyft or other taxi/car service
public transport: train, bus, subway
other
Have you ever driven yourself to the ER (as a patient)?
Yes
No
I already said I’ve never gone to the ER as a patient.
Select your favorite Paul McCartney singles (go to town, choose as many as you like)
Another Day
Arrow Through Me
Band on the Run
Coming Up
Eat at Home
Ebony and Ivory
Find My Way
Getting Closer
Give Ireland Back to the Irish
Goodnight Tonight
Helen Wheels
Hi, Hi, Hi
I’ve Had Enough
Jenny Wren
Jet
Junior’s Farm
Let ‘Em In
Letting Go
Listen to What the Man Said
Live and Let Die
London Town
Maybe I’m Amazed
Mrs. Vanderbilt
Mull of Kintyre
My Love
My Valentine
No More Lonely Nights
Old Siam, Sir
Pipes of Peace
Press
Pretty Little Head
Rockestra Theme
Say Say Say
Seaside Woman
Silly Love Songs
So Bad
Spies Like Us
Take It Away
Temporary Secretary
The Back Seat of My Car
The Girl Is Mine
Tug of War
Uncle Albert/Admiral Halsey
Venus and Mars/Rock Show
Walking in the Park with Eloise
Waterfalls
We All Stand Together
With a Little Luck
Wonderful Christmastime
Other
Do you think Mr. Mustard is surreptitiously programming AI/robot versions of each of us so he will have “friends” in a post-apocalyptic world?
Yes (I am paranoid)
I didn’t before, but now I do!
No.
What a genius idea! AI Dopers! I’m gonna do that (too)!
Due to the weather & a lack of beds, you find yourself needing to share a twin bed with someone who is neither related to you nor of any romantic interest (ie. same sex & you’re both hetero) but is someone you know (you’re both part of the same club / group / organization). Do you sleep
Same direction - both heads at one end of the bed
Opposite direction - one head at either end of the bed