Neither.
I used to play in the arcades, and no matter how good anyone thinks they are, there’s always someone as good or better.
One of my high school friends came to the arcades one day during the heyday of Street Fighter 2. I had heard he was the best SF2 (Nintendo) player in his dorm. OoOoOoo!
I didn’t just beat him, I had him pick 1 button (of course, he picked jab) and I beat him using only one button.
Another story out of that arcade is that there was a game where the score wrapped back to 0 at 256. Later, I found out that only 1 other player in the country outside of that arcade even knew about it. Currently, at Twin Galaxies, the record on that game is 200.
But, the best story I heard was the guy who finished Dragon’s Lair blindfolded.
And then, it doesn’t even have to be video games. At my high school, we loved to play trumps. Things like counting cards (we usually counted all four suits, not just trumps) was natural for us. Later, my friend and I got into a doubles tournament vs the trumps players from another school. In the first series, we beat the other 7 teams and came in first. Then, they said we had to get split up because we were too good, and in the second round, my team came in first, and his came in second.
Maybe I’m digressing here, but one of my opponents once said, “How does it feel when you lose?” My standard reply is, “My lifetime record is now something like 1000 to 801, so it’s kinda meaningless.” The flip side of that is the wins are meaningless as well.
Looking at your OP, I’m sure you felt the same way until your friend mentioned it.