question about what to talk about to a woman when you want to date her

In My Humble Opinion
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I am hearing that you have to be flirty but not sure what that means and would love if someone can give me an example of how to flirt with a woman on a date so I will have an idea

Thanks

2

It means to be flattering, agreeable, and mildly sexually suggestive without being creepy.

Just be nice, and don’t stare at her tits; you’ll be fine.

3

Talk about whatever the two of you - both of you - enjoy talking about.

That’s it.

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Get her to talk about herself, something she’s an expert on.

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… And remember follow-up questions.

Dude, seriously: Non-creepy follow-up questions are the gate to a woman’s heart.

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Well I have talked about the things below but wasn’t sure if they were the right topics

Television
Movies
Food
Traveling
Sports
Hobbies
I wasn’t sure if i needed to talk about something sexual in a non-creepy way

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Let me stop you right there.

What subjects does she enjoy talking about? Do you know?

And what subjects do both of you - you and her - enjoy talking about? Because those topics are the right topics.

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I was thinking I had to talk about sexual things so I won’t be seen as a bore

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I don’t know the woman in question, but this sounds quite wrong.

10

Notice neither school or work on your list.

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I try to stay away from the work topic in the beginning since it can be a depressing topic due to the economy

12

How old are you?

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Talk about things you like to do and/or things you like to talk about. IF she likes the same things, and likes to talk about the same things, it’s all good. If not, she’s not the right woman.

Also, if she’s talking, don’t interrupt her. (Unless she goes on and on. In that case she’s also probably not the right woman unless you like that kind of thing.)

You don’t have to talk about sexual things. I always found that a lot more attractive in a man, myself. You can flirt without saying anything sexual. Maybe a double entendre if you can manage it.

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If you want to stand out, give her a detailed account of your most recent bowel movement. With photos, if you have them.

She’ll remember you.

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Flirting is a style of communication, not a list of topics. It is engaging, light-hearted conversation usually about trivial matters, often with a conspiratorial undercurrent and some light sexual innuendo, especially if the flirtee is amused by or open to such innuendo (and dropped quickly if she’s not). It involves plenty of eye contact and close attention to gesture and physical cues, and usually the personal space in closer than in non-flirting exchanges. It should above all be humorous and fun.
It is difficult to learn if you’re not naturally gregarious and tuned in to personal relations. Most 16 year olds, for example, will have a difficult time with flirting simply due to lack of experience and the pressure to score.

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Don’t talk. Listen.

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Non-controversial, superficial, facile bullshit.

And really pretend you find it interesting.

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Talk mostly about yourself. Chicks dig that.

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Ask them how much they weigh. Women that are self-conscious will deflect the question, respond with aggresion, or throw their drink in your face.

Women that are truly confident about their bodies will tell you the number, even if its some embarassingly huge number. But in my experience, I haven’t gotten a straight answer from any woman who ended up weighing more than 160 lbs. It says a lot about their hangups and problems in life.

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  1. Sup
  2. How’s it going?
  3. Can I buy you a drink?
  4. Can I touch your hair?
  5. What’s your home address?
  6. No YOU’RE creepy (wink wink)
  7. YOU HAVE TO KEEP TALKING TO ME UNTIL YOU FINISH THE DRINK, I’M PRETTY SURE THAT’S A REAL LAW, BUT EVEN IF IT’S REPEALED OR WHATEVER YOU’RE BEING VERY RUDE