Guys: what is it like to have an erection? Kinesthetically, I mean.
As a person who has conscious control of all of my moving parts, I can’t really imagine what it feels like to have movement going on without motor control.
Do you feel it moving in the same way you’d feel your hand or foot moving, or is it more of a nonspecific swelling/arousal sensation? Do you know where it is at all times (erect or not)? Can you tell where it’s pointed without looking at it?
Arousal, I understand. Part of you moving as if with a mind of its own is just weird.
Why do guys not care/get grossed out by pee and pubes on the rim of the toilet? You’re not the ones cleaning that mess up. It would take, what, ten seconds to wipe it clean after you’re finished? Are you not embarrassed to leave this behind, especially as a guest? Disgusting!
What do you like about anal sex?
Not exactly conforming to the topic here, but I have a question I’d like answered from some other guys:
Do you always try to catch a glimpse down the shirt of any woman that leans over near you? I find myself doing it just about every time it happens, even with women I don’t find particularly attractive. It’s just like…if there’s a woman leaning down nearby, my eyes just go down to check out the goods in 9 out of 10 cases. I’d like to think I’m not the only red-blooded male who does this.
For the girls, related to my question above:
When you do lean over and you’re wearing a low neckline, are you aware that the man next to you will be looking but you don’t care and do it anyway or is it really a case of you absentmindedly leaning over and forgetting that you’re giving out down-the-shirt shots? Also, if you caught a guy (co-worker, for example) looking, would you be upset?
It’s kinky. Do you need a better reason? 
i can get it all in that orifice. no gagging, hitting the end or having some of it out in the cold.
I’m assuming this is for the guys?
Similarly, for many of the ladies, what do you have against it?
Have you ever slammed a door on your thumb? It feels like that, only without the pain. All you really feel is the skin expanding; the blood filling it up doesn’t really create much of a sensation.
When the penis is a bit desensitized (during sex, but before climax, specifically) I often can’t tell if it’s hard or not, so if I pull out I have to double check it. I only get soft during sex when wearing a condom, though. Not sure why.
When I did it there was a bit of a D/s element to that relationship, and it was the last… barrier that dropped. So that was fun. Also, it’s much easier to use our hand(s) on the clit during anal than during vaginal sex, which always provokes interesting responses.
Duh.
Actually, no bending required- if there’s a low cut shirt within 50 paces I’ll probably try to peek. I think this is why evolutionary pressures caused men to be taller. 
Well, see, we have this one orifice that’s self-lubricating, meant to stretch to the appropriate size, self-cleaning, surrounded with lots of nerves receptors, close enough to the clitoris that action in the one translates to stimulus of the other.
We also have a second orifice that isn’t self-lubricating, rarely has to stretch to that same diameter, is not only not self-cleaning but actually self-soiling, has nerves, obviously, but not to the same extent, and is so far from the clitoris that it doesn’t get the same stimulus.
Not to mention unpleasant smells, the need for both partners to carefully clean up afterwards, the posibility of ending up with smears of unpleasant stuff on sheets or whatever… (And really, which of the partners is more likely to have to change the bedding and wash it and all?)
Really, if you were a woman, which orifice would YOU prefer to use?
prettydorky is a woman.
Mahna mahna…
Well, I hate to show my ignorance of things mammalian, but here goes. What determines the size and shape of the areolae? Some are well-defined, others larger and lacking a clear line of demarcation.
Heredity? Having been a mother? Normal variation? I not men’s areolae seem to be about the same, not that I have done a lot of staring you understand.
Guys: what turns you off? Almost all of the men who have shown interest in me have been very socially awkward and the ‘like you for your personality’ type. Women have shown a great deal of interest in me, on the other hand, and usually the ‘damn, you’re hot’ kind. So what is it that makes me hot to girls and invisible to guys?
You probably have, in spades, something men couldn’t give a toss about but women do. Well, you knew that already.
But by way of example, if the wifey and I are watching television, and an attractive woman is on screen, she’ll usually say something arcane and mystifying like, “she has such a pretty jawline.” Or something about her cheekbones.
At that point, I will sit there with one eyebrow raised wondering how on earth a jawline could ever be pretty, plus, usually, something like, “fuck her jawline! Look at them titties!”
I don’t actually mention the latter part, for my own good health.
Honestly, as far as faces go, I don’t think men notice anything other than eyes and lips and nose. The rest is just… there.
i am big around but i’ve seen many a turd larger in diameter.
not only does the asshole have nerve endings but it pulls on many of the same muscles that are pulled on during vaginal intercourse which do stimulate the clit.
spit, male and female fluids and store bought lube all help for those that need it.
anal intercourse from the rear into a female can hit the G spot (or something similar) that can’t be touched by frontal or rear entry vaginal intercourse (maybe a stubby guy might from the rear, i have no data on that).
other techniques like pooping some time earlier, enemas or a tight butt for squeegee action all help.
it is an acquired taste and skill.
going around the world is a trip in itself.
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Anal sex? No, that is an icky idea and too close to the ghey (in the opinon of my straight friends). Me, I’m having enough trouble finding someone to date-forget which trail to follow.
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Looking down the shirt? Sure, if I can do it without being obvious. Makes it hard if she has a button undone on her shirt becuase I don’t want her to know I peeked, though.
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Being aroused is like having a limb that’s gone to sleep to me. Can’t do much with it till you rub some feeling into it, and yes you do have to watch out depending on what you’re wearing. Like a puppy, fun but irritating. Perhaps if you think of it like a big aroused nipple poking out for all to see.
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Cleaning up tyhe toliet sounds too much like housework, I guess. Also, we’re guys-we’re not supposed to care. I sit down to do both, so this does not happen to me, though.
5)Ugly hetero porn guys make them easier for us to identify with-if The Hedgehog can score with that hot woman, maybe I can too!
6)Masturbating in a restroom at work? No, then I have to go all day with the wet spot and maybe it seeps through my slacks. Wait till I can go hoem then shower afterwards.
Electric Warrior-need more info, or a picture :D.
Since sex seems to be a big interest in this thread, I’ll chime in:
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Did your first time hurt, ladies? I’ve read conflicting accounts on this-of course it depends on what form your hymen took before the fact, which leads me to…
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Is your cherry still intact, partially or wholly? What I mean is, depending on your anatomy vs. that of your regular partner(s), I’ve heard it said that the hymen will often stretch, but not always break, unless something really (umm) big is involved.
Why do gals ditto, by a factor of ten or more; a number of Dope threads on women who hover in restrooms are my cite.
When you do lean over and you’re wearing a low neckline, are you aware that the man next to you will be looking but you don’t care and do it anyway or is it really a case of you absentmindedly leaning over and forgetting that you’re giving out down-the-shirt shots? Also, if you caught a guy (co-worker, for example) looking, would you be upset?
Sometimes I’m aware, but usually I’m not thinking about that. And I’m not upset when a guy looks; I’m not doing it so a guy will look, but if I absentmindedly bend over and then catch a guy taking a peek, I just blush and think that he thinks that I did it to give him a peek . . . even when I didn’t (which is almost always).
I wonder if I’ve just been with mostly uncreative guys, or if the gap between what they’re experiencing as making huge changes in lovemaking styles between partners, and our perception of “some nuances might be different, but largely the same, and mostly penis-centric” is more due to what, generally, each gender is tuned into during the act. Sort of like how people of different racial backgrounds see different “differences” between faces?
Hmm, I don’t know. It seems to me that almost every man I’ve been with has just gone through the motions of what he thinks I want because he knows that it will bring him closer to what he wants. Once in a while a man will actually seem to enjoy giving me pleasure, but often it seems like he’s doing it while thinking all the while, "It won’t be long until I get to have my orgasm . . . " I can’t tell you how many times I haven’t had the O but the man has. My ex-husband used to ensure almost every time that I had a good time, but most men don’t seem all that concerned about whether I’ve had the big one or not.