So, DanielWithrow and I are getting married in May. Hurray! We’re currently trying to work up a ceremony that takes into account my dad’s Protestantism, his dad’s Buddhism, Daniel’s atheism, and my utter wishy-washiness about religion. We’ve talked to a couple of officiants who have given us sample ceremonies, but they’re a bit New Age-y for our tastes. Can anyone recommend a good book or website of wedding vows/ceremony ideas? I’d prefer something that’s not overtly church-y or very flowery (“one soul in two bodies” kind of junk). I really like the traditional “in sickness and in health” vows, but I’d like to find a secular version of them.