I find that it often is helpful to see what people that you admire have done in a similar situation. In your case, HilfigerChic17, I’d suggest Hillary Rodham Clinton as your role model, since she has gone through some difficult relationship problems similar to your own.
You mean Sandy. . . er uh Hil has a fat ass too?
Pardon me while I burst into flames.
Well, no doubt one difference is that HilfigerChic17 hasn’t had to deal with a 50+ year-old guy who seems to have an uncontrollable urge to associate with girls young enough to be his daughter.
OK, enough, back off everyone.
It’s been long enough. If HilfigerChic was REALLY JohnJohn/Cyb/Sanycane, he would have jumped in again by now and defended himself by asking stuff like “Who is Cyb?” and “What is a sock puppet”?
Carry on.
What age are you, hilfigerchic? 17? 20?
In the grand scheme of things, an 8-month relationship is not long. If he is unwilling to work beyond the arguing, let it go. Plenty of other fishies.
(now it has been 4 0r 5 days, so you’re probably “on-again”)