Ok here’s the deal…Me and my boyfriend were together for almost 8 months we broke up about 3 days ago b/c we got into a stupid fight and he said we fight too much…Well now we’re trying out best to stay together but everytime we talk we fight…I Love him very much and i want to be with him but our stupid fights are causing us not to be together…what should i do?
Whoa, you started this out in GQ? Way to debut.
Go back and reread Willie Shakespeare’s TAMING OF THE SHREW. Don’t let him eat, don’t let him sleep, keep exhibiting to him just how miserable his nasty behavior is by adopting it yourself.
Before long he’ll be running to you at your command!
um buy him a DVD player. a good one.
worked for me. =)
buy him a DVD player. a good one.
worked for me. =)
Good puncutation is the key to a harmonious relationship. Really, try it.
Cyb, cut it out already.
“His eyes are as green as a fresh-pickled toad,
His hair is as dark as a blackboard,
I wish he was mine, he’s really divine,
The hero who conquered the Dark Lord.”
Talk to him… tell the truth… make sure he will do that same… GIVE A LITTLE GROUND… it helps… good luck…
Figure out why you fight all the time? What are the fights about? Trust? Respect? Then fix the problem.
I find most of life’s problems can best be answered by a certain poster we have here that goes by the name of Coldfire. Just seatch for his name and write him an email with all of your problems. He loves to help. Also, he really enjoys reading nonsensical ramblings with very little punctuation.
We went right out there and refused to do accoustical versions of the electrical songs that we had refused to record in the first place.
D’OH!!
Mully, we were even. Now I’m gonna have to come up with an even extra super more evilerest plan…
Ignore him, HilfigerChick17. Unless you want a spicy love letter.
Defect borg:
“Refutile is sistance. Your ass will be simulated”.
WallyM7 on Coldfire:
"Yeah, he knows a little about everything because they have a good prison library."
You mean this whole time I misunderstood your feelings for bj0rn?
Dang, you need to be a little clearer next time.
You’re in love?
You poor, poor dear! Some psychiatrists have compared love with a severe mental disorder and I tend to agree. (I get nuts when I fall in love.)
If you two have been spending a lot of time arguing, then there are unresolved needs and problems within the relationship. These have to be found and solved. One of you just MIGHT be actually more in love with the idea of being in love than actually so.
The simplest thing to do is to sit down and discuss what and why you both argue so much and what it is that ticks you off to start the argument. (You might not be all that compatible after all. – I’ve been there several times.) See if there are similarities in the arguments like, are most started when HE decides what you are going to do, or because one of you is not paying the other possibly enough attention, or is too suspicious or too possessive?
Sometimes, some relationships need ‘personal time’ in them, where each person has time alone. (I’m one of those because I write.) Sometimes one person just starts falling out of love with the other but remains in the relationship out of habit.
There’s even a cool thing a shrink friend told me about once. The two sit down alone and write out lists of likes and dislikes about each other and then compare them. The likes should be in greater number than the dislikes. If not, then ya’ll got a problem. The dislikes can then be worked on.
I was wondering the same thing, Rilch.
Live from New York, it’s SandyCane, Part II (“She’s Baaaaaack”)
Depends on how old the guy is.
Does Tommy know?
Here’s a thoroughly worthless thread I can put a test post in.
The time is now 1:15pm in Chicago.
I really, really like Chewy Runts. Not the hard kind, but the chewy kind that come in the red package as opposed to the yellow box.
My favorite is banana with strawberry coming in a close second.
(In regards to the Cyb comment: Me three.)
Pardon me while I burst into flames.
I really, really like Chewy Runts. Not the hard kind, but the chewy kind that come in the red package as opposed to the yellow box.
My favorite is banana with strawberry coming in a close second.
(In regards to the Cyb comment: Me three.)
Pardon me while I burst into flames.
you might also want to call loveline.
tell him to stop wearing nautica and start wearing hilfiger too.