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The Snark Pit, although I do read to it and even contribute occasionally, sickens me sometimes. Or, more accurately, some of the contributors sicken me when they go on about “fag this” and “fag that” and “gay people and trannies are sick weirdos”, and the other posters’ willingness to go along with it makes me uncomfortable about my fellow Dopers. That said, I agree that it’s a waste of time and energy to care about what people say about you over there.
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I agree with this actually (the horror! I’m agreeing with you for the first time this week, Hostile Dialect. I do believe this is the first sign of the weekly end of times, yes?
). I also agree with lobstermobster that for the most part it is absolutely harmless- just people saying what the rest of us are thinking while reading some of the more ridiculous threads posted here. Human nature, blah blah blah. But I do agree that sometimes (and I’d argue those instances are incredibly few and far between), some folks go overboard- namely in the case of MizGrand and her whole fiasco.
That said, the moderators over there do their best to delete any personal stuff like addresses as quickly as possible and then attempt to implement systems to stop that from happening again.
And to be honest, I have a theory that there is probably one or two assholes over that way who like to hear themselves talk and take advantage of the anonymous posting to basically argue with themselves. One time when I was being snarked on, someone gave me a DeadJournal code because they thought I was handling it well (well, er, thanks?) and because I’ve got a code, I get immediate email replies when someone posts to something I say. What’s funny is that the most. . . colorful. . . of it all comes all at once. Like, I’ll get 10 replies, all from anonymous posters, within a 2 minute period. Call me crazy, but that says to me you’ve got a few people abusing the anonymous system to be total douchebags.
For the most part, I think it’s fair to say most of the posters over there are you average nice and respectable Doper (attributes I do not claim to apply to myself- particularly the respectable part :p).
I’ve said my piece about Sampiro in the last thread where he exploded about the Snarkers. My efforts garnered me a swift and brutal tongue lashing that sure as hell put me in my place.
That said, I actually agree with the OP (and really, this goes for anyone who is overly concerned with what anyone is saying about them, Snark Pit or otherwise): why worry? I was originally sent over there because they were snarking on me and, to be totally honest, it was more funny than any thing. What do they say about me? I’m fat- true dat. I’m careless in my posting and often having spelling errors or improperly used idioms- true dat. I work for the family business and have a pretty easy life for a college student- true dat. I think Marines are hot- definitely true dat. The worst thing was probably when a stalker from the Dope (who isn’t around anymore) somehow got his hands on a salacious picture of me and posted it all over there (I’m so over explaining how it happened, PM if you must know)- and even then, the moderator deleted the picture for the most part.
But in the end, who cares? It’s a bunch of strangers talking shit about you. I can’t fathom how any adult can be bothered by it. As I see it, either I ignore it or I take it for what it is: childish, but sometimes funny gossip. And I’m saying all of this as a frequent snark target.