On the level of simplicity, I have to agree with Meany, Rhummy and Nemo. Just because that’s what it all boils down to when you take in a long-term relationship.
That does not at all, however, apply to any one act of sexual relations nor should it be thought of as a guide to sex.
As has been said, keeping an open mind is very important and it is important to realize each guy will like to do things a different way, at a different rate.
Some fellas will likely “just want to race along” until they come. (Cum? Hm. I never typed that before)
Personally, I always hold out as long as I can to make sure the missus has orgasmed at least once. Someone else mentioned earlier, and I agree, that coming at the same time is best, because the feeling is intensified by each of you.
If you require some personal tutoring in this matter, let me know.
I could write a book. The biggest sex organ is his brain…find out what makes him tick and give it to him in a better way than he imagined it could be…but as far as satisfying a man OUT of bed???..ya’ got me because I swear I NEVER understood one of them.
So many possible ways of answering this…let’s go with a relatively nice one. For, me, the season ends the day before my birthday. Of course, the new season begins on my birthday, so, that probably isn’t going to make you any happier.
Yeah, the way to pleasure a man is through his stomach…
Frankly, the idea that men are horny & that they just want sex is repulsive to me. Get to know a guy as a human being, you’ll find out what pleasures him.
Thanks and that is the way I like a man to treat me but it seems like every time I try to do this to them , I get some bonehead who just screws with my head…maybe I just have really awful taste in men.
No problem at all. Just wondering when I’m going to open up the Boards without people cleverly disguising flirt threads as ‘honest questions about relationships’
Of course I don’t have to read them, but when they take up a third of the ‘most recent threads’ page, I feel like speaking up.
And since the SDMB goes in cycles, I’m just assuming this is the 'where can I get a good fisting/ I love blowjobs/ men can’t get enough of my big tits" cycle that Nature experiences every spring.
Woo woo! I’m becoming a man! It’s about friggin’ time, I tell you.
Ok, how to satisfy a man… I think Priceguy put it about as well as I could. And other people here too. I’d say it’s an indiviual enough thing that you just have to discover (through talking or experimenting) what “does it” for your particular partner. I think if there were a magic answer, we’d all know it and everyone would be happy. But I don’t think it works that way. Does it? Or did I just miss that day in school? I knew I should have worked harder…
And unsolicited and NSHO, if you find that your guy really only wants to go straight to “the deed” everytime, and that’s really all that satisfies him, kick him out on the curb and find someone else. There’s plenty of us out there (ok, well at least a few of us out there) who think there’s more to it that that. I wouldn’t put up with that crap if I had to deal with men. But maybe that’s just me…
ok, i admit it! it is spring but that does not influence my curiosity. personally i am trying to understand men and what they like. yes, maybe it started about sex but i am trying to see some general thoughts about what they like, how they prefer women to behave. do you want us to show that we are interested? do you prefer to chase us? and what are the little things that they drive you mad about us. i have a general idea but i met someone that made me wonder if i know anything at all! of course he is older!
ok a correction. i said “of course he is older” that was a self-sarcasm and i said it not because i think that men in my age are not good enough or something. it was just a statement to explain why i am not sure what he wants. I feel more confident when it comes to men in my age
Well darlin’ I didn’t realize my posts were so cleverly disguised. Apparently I should be more blunt so I don’t seem so subversive. thanks for the critique.
Perhaps you should post some non-sexual threads to allow some of us over-sexed heathens to adjust our thinking. I reply to whatever seems interesting. I just think a lot of people do find sex interesting whatever the season and often one question will pique my thoughts toward another related question. Maybe that is why there are so many intimate posts recently. Additionally you can ask your co-workers what the purpose of wearing a tank style t-shirt is but most people won’t ask how to give a really great blow job…
Since you accessed this thread at least twice now, it does imply that you have at least minimal interest in the subject - right? Are you looking of advice on how to please your man? Or just wondering how the debaucherous mind spends an afternoon?
I accessed it once because someone sent me a link saying “Davebear’s at it again” (he has a reputation for participating in NAUGHT but sex threads) and then accessed it again because someone responded to my post.
I have an interest in sex definitely, anyone who posts here knows it…but after a while you’ll find (since I notice you’re new) it gets BORING to just praise up and down how great you are at various sexual activities. Believe it or not, other things are happening outside the bedroom.
I am just wondering how Dave bear got blamed for this one. He didn’t start the thread and most of the posts are from other people…
Sex is never boring. Yep other things are happening outside the cyber boards too but I still kill time here and apparently you do too…Yeah I am new to this board but not new to sex. When sex gets boring (talking, thinking, doing) then shoot me, I’m done.
