SDMB Self Esteem

Frannie! Another person who’s been supportive of me (by being one of the nicer people here). She deserves points for raising my self esteem.

I’m not the sweetest–YOU ARE! :slight_smile:

[sub]And now that I’ve addressed the OP:[/sub]

How are you doing? Completely kicked the smoking habit? I really hope you’re well: I haven’t seen you around much and I’ve missed you!

As for the Indians, Burks will do well (if he doesn’t get hurt–he’s somewhat injury prone). Unfortunately, he’s no Manny Ramirez. The Indians will need better years from other players to offset the loss of Manny.

I just want to say that there is a sweet and charming girl out there in Doperland who is a truly wonderful person. Though I’m sure she knows the high regard I have for her, I’ve never really said it properly. So I’m doing it now. Though I haven’t really known her all that long, I count her as one of my dearest friends, and am eternally grateful that I have the honour of knowing her.

hugs TopazAntares

Here’s to Anthracite and Fierra!

Also, I forgot to mention Byzantine before. She is the Queen of ‘for f**k’s sake, sort it out’.

But my list is just way too long to mention you all here. I want you all to know what a difference the SDMB has made in my life, (I found the boards at a time when I was really depressed, and the kindness and friendship here helped to ease that). Even the people I don’t agree with have given me another perspective from which to look at things, to help keep me from becoming a self-righteous know-it-all.

It also has given Bob (imthjckaz), Jarrod (PuRpLe PrIdE) and I something in common, and helps blend our families a little more smoothly.

Thanks to those of you who mentioned me here.

And ////Anthracite\\ and ////Fierra\\, much happiness and warm wishes to you.

----:)/ x o x o x
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I’ll mention KKB, just because. Hi. :smiley:

A big, warm thank-you hug to both poohpah chalupa and silent_rob, who have given me many reasons to smile. Another thank-you hug to CnoteChris, for being fun, and for being a friend. Give little Z a kitty snack for me, wouldja?

Keep an eye on your inboxes or mailboxes, okie dokie?
And thank you, Tansu. :slight_smile:

Anthracite and Fierra-

Best of love to both of you-I am so glad that you found each other!

I am already, as you know, praying for a smooth transition. And sending every positive vibe I can in your directions!

Scotti

There are truly so many people who I admire and respect. Who entertain me. Who leave me shaking my head in disbelief at their wit and cleverness. Who touch my heart and touch my life.

I normally beg off on these threads for fear of inadvertantly leaving someone out but it truly is a wonderful thing to remind someone of how special they are. And there are so many special people here and some of them actually fail to realise just how unique they are.

It’s 2am here and I probably WILL leave a few names out, and if so I apologise in advance for nearly ALL here have affected me in some way. But atm those in my mind include:

The wonderful and compassionate ** Scotticher ** who aches with you when you feel down and does her best to cheer you up. The fact that SHE started this thread should come as no surprise to anyone who knows her. Her and ** purplebear ** (queen of hugs) are the probably the sweetest posters here.

**Democritus ** has always cheered me up. His posts range from insightful observations to whimsical wordplays to clever insults. What’s not to love? I’ve said it before: demo is the Fonz of the SDMB. And he and psycat are such a wonderful couple!!

One of the most tireless workers is also one of the nicest. I’m sure we all appreciate the amount of work that ** Shayna ** puts in and I hope she knows it too. She’s sweet, honest and a good cyber-kisser! (Okay I’m just joking about that last one but a guy can dream can’t he?)

**Coldfire ** who - although I guess we don’t qualify as friends yet - is always ready to help or just to spout crap along with me. Someone whose company I always enjoy.

** Doob ** just for being Doob. And ** Nym ** who underneath the cynical facade is a great girl who is intelligent as well as pretty - a fact a lot of people miss. And hopefully she’ll make a good valentine.

There’s simply so much to mention: The passion of ** Spoofe ** - after all he KNOWS the destroyer would whip the Enterprise - the angst, curiosity and flirting of ** ssskuggi, hypergirl ** and co., the delightful creativity of ** SpiderWoman **, the wonderful insight of ** andygirl ** (not to mention her interest in Buffy and Willow and her relationship with ** quietgirl ** my supposed soulmate), ** Swiddles ** whose posts I am continually entertained by, the anime head of the woogirl ** Rasa ** and the wit of her other half **oldscratch **, the delightfully wicked antics of ** Satan ** (where the heck is he lately actually?) and ** DrainBead ** (another cute couple), Danielinthewolvesden who jumps from forums almost seamlessly, the ** IPU ** who gives us food for thought constantly ;).

Chat addict ** Silverfire ** is always ready with a hug and a smile just as ** tiggeril ** is always ready with a lick. **Fierra ** whose sexual ambiguity revolves more around my perceptions than on her preferences (but she makes a damn fine treasurer - notice our trade surplus?). ** Dry ** whose ability to find a quote in context so quickly is nothing short of amazing, ** Tubadiva ** who does a fantastic job though we often take it for granted, **Nacho4sara **who seems so nice though we’ve so rarely crossed paths, **Hamadryad ** who received the first-ever custom dpr sig and who is befriended by all she meets, ** Anth ** who never chats to me but who consistently posts interesting material, ** Wyldelf ** - a good IRL friend who graciously allowed me to introduce her to the boards and then started plotting a takeover, **all the mods **who work tirelessly feeding their addiction while helping us all , ** seadiver ** such an interesting person I want to meet her IRL one day, ** Silo ** who I simply ignored in his early days as a troll but who has turned from the dark side to become a productive member of the community.

And once again I use the word community. At the risk of repeating myself yet again I see the SDMB as a simply stunning community. We’re not faceless names: we’re each an individual sharing opinions and expressing thoughts about the world around us in an intelligent, sharing and caring manner. We share our lives, our dreams, our very souls here. Anyone who doubts that wasn’t around when Wally passed on.

Thank you all for being a part of such a special thing. You have my respect, admiration and some of you even have pieces of my heart.

Those I’ve mentioned here are the ones who I can think of off the top of my head in the wee hours of the morning. Trust me there’s so many more I’m sure.

The fact I named so many indicates how wonderful you all are.
Or that I really need to get into a clique…

1987: The Princess Bride steals our hearts, Fred Astaire died, Soviet Secretary Gorbachev and U.S. President Reagan sign the INF Treaty reduce their nuclear stockpiles, Aretha Franklin becomes the first woman inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, Craig Stadler was disqualified from the Andy Williams Open for kneeling on a towel to make a shot, "Les Miserables" opened on Broadway, A jury in Los Angeles found "Twilight Zone" movie director John Landis and four associates innocent of involuntary manslaughter in the movie-set deaths of actor Vic Morrow and two children, Pat Cash wins Wimbledon, Bob Hawke becomes the first labour PM to serve three consecutive terms (he still holds the beer drinking record at Oxford University too), The Bangles had us Walking like Egyptians

I didn’t want to post in this thread until it was publically confirmed, now I can do it properly…The people I would like to thank include Fierra and by extensionUna for showing how much I mean to you and vice versa by taking me into your confidences…I meant everyghing I’ve said and I am proud to be your friend Fierra…Angkins for being there and listening to me when I was talking to you about our mutual situations, and for listening to my advice, as poor as it may be. CanadianSue just for being you and listening and appreciating me. I just want to say that I appreciate you more then you will know. Scotticher I know you didn’t want to be mentioned in this thread, but you qualify too, and I am proud to know you and I want to tell you that I appreciate all you said. To all the dopers who have taken time out to talk to me and to make me laugh, cry and think I would like to tell everybody, that I truly appreciate that and I want you to know how glad I am to be a part of this community. The good feelings that are expressed here help me get through my days.

Humbly Yours

Keith

Sexual ambiguity?

It surely must be only by accident that I haven’t chatted with a fine person such as yourself.

I haven’t been on the board long, so there’s not a lot to say at the moment. But here are a few to start out with…

lurkernomore - Thank you for being the friend that I need through good and bad, for building me up but never tearing me down, for listening and caring and knowing just the right thing to say at the right time. You’ve got the biggest heart, and the most honest soul, of anyone I know. I don’t know what I would do without you there.

Scralden - Thank you for making me laugh, for bringing a smile to my face. You’ve got such a talent for humor that I sometimes envy you… but am always grateful that you share it with me.

UncleBill - Thank you for being a wonderful flirt! :slight_smile: You helped bring this shy girl out of her shell a little, give me something a little more to look forward to every day, wanting to see where this little road we travel on is going to lead (and who you’re going to go bump off next! :smiley: )

Medea’s Child - You are such a kind, considerate woman. You pulled me back to my childlike side with your Valentine thread and, while you didn’t have to help me bring certain others to back to a better childhood, you did. Thank you.

And to the rest of the dopers who have had kind words and warm welcomes… thank you. I’d been told how wonderful it was to be here, and you just made the accolades pale by comparison.

It’s alright love, he kept thinking I was male for some reason…I told him presidents aren’t supposed to make that sort of mistake & improved the school funding…I think we got him a pretty intern to teach him advanced Biology or something :wink: This may have eaten into the trade surplus, but I still think it should cover “trade visits” to Kansas :wink:

& while I’m here, I’d just like to thank everyone for their good wishes, both here & anonymously, in the “Anthracite Happy” thread…

Hoo boy. Where to begin…first off, a big thank you to those who have mentioned me already. hugs

Hamadryad - For listening to me rant, wail, and then cheering me up. You rock, hon, and I look forward to IMing with you each day.
Coldfire - For listening and then giving me a good kick in the ass when I need it. You’ve been a wonderful friend, hon.
purplebear and Vestal Blue - For both helping me through a VERY rough patch in my life…I don’t think I can ever repay the kindness you both have shown me.
weirddave - For being an absolutely wonderful friend. There’s really no better way for me to put it.
Tripler - For making me laugh, and giving me hope. :slight_smile:
Nymysys - For giving me someone to vent to who totally understands. Thanks babe. :slight_smile:

And to everyone in #straightdope, for listening to me when I’ve ranted, and for cheering me up on a daily basis.

Nacho4Sara and FairyChatMom seem sooooo nice.
Byzantine and Stoid are such “gutsy broads” and thats a compliment.
All my fellow Naderites. :slight_smile:

I haven’t been mentioned yet, but I am comfortable with that. I guess don’t fall under the self-hating category, though.

As far as my favorites, there are so many people here that have made me laugh, cry, and everything in between that it would take all day to list them all. This is such a wonderful community that I would hate to mention a few and leave the rest out, so I’ll just make a blankes statement to thank you all.

Congratulations to Anthracite and Fierra!!

Aww - brotherly love out to all those whom mentioned me. :slight_smile:

It’s hard for me to make a list because it would be a challenging feat not to miss giving someone a deserving mention.

However, I’m going to make a -condensed list- off the top of my head, of those who’ve definitely meant something to me:

{
Techchick
Weirddave
Falcon
Satan&Drain
Saxface
Saphhire Bullet
Silver Fire

}

Aside from those folks, if YOU didn’t get mentioned that’s just too friggen bad !!!

In all seriousness, I could practically list a modest fraction of the board for an endless assortment of reasons. Conversely, I’m feelin’ hella lazy today and I’m not up to the multiple hour task.

Cheers to all those at #straightdope for putting up with my ever so often bottomless antics. :wink:

Hugs out to all the local dopes.
PS - Thanks Scotti, for being such a kind soul as to start this thread.

And here we go:

Froggy who is just an all-around nice guy with a bit of twistedness. How does it get better than that? Plus, he gives good email.
LeSang, along with Froggy was my first. Always there for me. Always having as many good days/bad days as I am. Truly someone that deserves to get the best things in life and all the red flags he can stand.
Falcon, who seems to be living a parallel life. 'Nuff said. :slight_smile:
Scotti, who is absolutely the kindest person I’ve ever had the honour of knowing, even a little. I’m in awe of the depth of her grace and kindness.
Shayna, Mauvaise and Wyldelf are my girls. Totally, completely, utterly. We should get together once a week for the rest of our lives. Who knows what may happen? :smiley:
Morphy, you’re always supporting me. Even when I’m a flake. Good people, you are, and GOTdamned talented to boot.
Andy, nine days. That is all.
dpr. dprdprdprdprdpr. Whatever will I do with you, baby? My first, my truest SDMB crush. I’m proud to know you. Wish I had something to out us about. :slight_smile:

Odie, Doob, Demo (my twin), Sea, Maxxie, Dyno, Flyp (wherever you are), Joph, Omni, VB, porc, Mike, MattK, Addy and all my other #SD chat buddies, you make my life happier and more sane. I NEED you people.
And andygirl, Serendipity, matt_mcl, Exprix, Hastur, obfusciatrist, Sue Duhnym, Tripler, Ayesha, Coldfire, and dozens of others who I search out to read their posts. You are the ones that contribute to this board. You are the reasons I stay here. You give me things to think about and points to ponder. You make me laugh my ASS off, too.

A big THANK YOU to all the mods that work their fingers to the bone to keep this a safe, sane place for people to communicate.

And another happy “Congratulations!” to Una and Fierra. I hope to dance at your wedding.

As my dad put it, I take self-hate to new and different levels.

However, I understand I’ve been here a pretty short time, so I wasn’t expecting to be mentioned.

Now I’m off to mend my broken heart…

Keith,

That’s what friends are for! :smiley:
Ang

I can’t list everyone here who’s boosted my self esteem. Let me just say that if you’re reading this, you’ve probably made me smile and feel good about myself.

But there’s a couple of people I’ve got to single out for special mention:

elelle: she knows why.
Scotticher and evilbeth: the other members of Eutychus’ harem. They are amazing.*
xploder: for being one of the very best IRL friends I’ve ever had.

And then, there’s my beloved Eutychus. A truly wonderful man. I’m proud to say I know him, and look forward to the day that I can actually meet him in person, and tell him in my own voice how much his friendship has come to mean to me during a tough period in my life.

{{{Anthracite and fierra}}}

I had a good day, but damn this made it so much better! I wish you the very best. I hope you two find the happiness that you deserve. Okay, that doesn’t even begin to convey how good I feel upon hearing this, but it’ll have to do. Rest assured that there is a girl in Baltimore going to bed tonight smiling because of this wonderful, spectacular news.

And to everyone else who mentioned me - thanks! Thanks a lot! Words fail me again, but if I could, I would post 24 hours a day just to get the chance to run across you more often. :slight_smile: