So, it occured to me the other day that the way my beloved and I live would strike some as odd.
We’ve been together for a little over 4 years. The first 2 or so we lived 40 miles apart. The next 2 we lived in spearate buildings, directly next door to each other. It was while we lived side by side that we started our business. That is how we make our living, in business together. Started a company and the whole shebang. And he asked me to marry him about a year ago. (It’s on hold til we see how various things shake out after Y2K.)
We have lived together for 5 months. Since the day we moved in, we have had separate bedrooms. Fact is, we just sleep much better that way. His waking hours are about 2pm-5am, mine are around 9am-1 am.
We kiss and hug all day long. I often go in to wake him up and snuggle with him. He tucks me in sometimes and snuggles with me. Sometimes we’ll nap together.
Sex occurs at random times under various circumstances…blowjobs in the living room, screwing in the hottub. It’s always great.
But we happily sleep apart at night.
How about the rest of you? What’s your arrangement? Would you like this if you could?
I am #1. Everyone else is #2 or lower.