This one is for the guys: I want to know how to give my boyfriend good head, but I am too shy to ask him for advice. So can the bold and unembarrassed among you help me out? Thanks!
Shyness makes for lousy blowjobs. Talk to your man about what he likes. Remember, though, it reflects poor manners to speak with your mouth full.
Ooh, Perfect_Girl, what a question.
OK first rule, NO teeth.
Second, don’t be shy, just go for it.
Third, Lips, tongue, hand, it all works so use it.
That should be a start. But let him tell you what he likes. Just ask, in the heat of passion, it won’t sound weird. He’ll just be turned on even more.
I would recommend Dan Savage’s sex advice column, Savage Love. You can read it at thestranger.com, follow the links to Dan Savage, and I think the article you want is actually titled “Head Help”. I’m sure with a lack of imagination and a decent search engine you can find more advice than you will want to use.
Thinking less “suck” and more “stroke” might be helpful for you. Try to keep your jaw relaxed, if your jaw gets sore, try moving your head and shoulders.
Check out this thread.
And this one.
Both of the threads mentioned give more than enough advice and information, so I’m locking this one off.