kevja, I think that DirkGntly was lamenting that other homosexuals with different experiences hadn’t responded. I doubt that he meant you should lie about your experiences, or that you had offended anyone, just that with others’ experiences (with 600+ views, there ought to be others) we’d have a more well-rounded sample.
Myself:
2 sexual partners.
Both unmarried
1 short, variable weight (from overweight to average weight), brunette atheist.
1 average height, overweight redhead of unknown religious affiliation.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with what you said, kevja. But I also do not think it is silly to have in ones life to have so few sex partners that you can actually count them and remember something about them. In fact, I can’t even figure out what is supposed to be silly about that.
We’ve all have our own lives. If a person had one partner in their life, that’s good for them. If another person has had more partners they can count, it’s hope it’s all good for them too.
Sounds to me as if Badtz is totally caught up in his inability to obtain as many sexual partners as he feels he deserves.
The remark about cruising Lane Bryant for potential partners is a very sad commentary on how you view women- believe me, it does not take a thin woman to see through a man’s BS.
I wonder how many of your sexual partners even remember to count you?
Isoldah - Geez, you’re not over-sensitive, much, are you? Badtz Maru admitted that many of the women he’s been with are overweight. He didn’t disparage their weight. If anything, his desire to pursue more overweight women should show that he doesn’t seem to find them unattractive. Would it be better in your opinion if all the women he’d been involved with were less than average in weight and he said he’d cruise the gyms or salad bars? Get over it.
I seem to always go out with single guys. (but if I was interested in a guy with an open marriage, well you know)
RELIGION
Atheist - 1
Pagan/New Age - 2
Unknown - 8
Most people I date aren’t particularly religious.
APPEARANCE: BODY
Over 6’ tall - 10
Under 6’ tall - 1
Lean frame - 11
Apparently I like tall thin guys.
APPEARANCE: HAIR
Short - 3
Long - 8
Brown - 9
Blonde - 2
Guys with long dark hair seem to predominate
AGE
(all ages are at time of first sexual encounter)
18 - 2
19 - 1
20 - 1
29 - 1
?? - 5
34 - 1
I have dated guys from 2 - 14 years older than myself. One guy I think may have been younger than me by a year or two, but I’m not sure. He was also the only guy under 6’ that I’ve ever dated, and the only bisexual that I’m aware of. Cute though.
There is one guy that I left off this list, though. He doesn’t count. It wasn’t consentual.
I seem to always go out with single guys. (but if I was interested in a guy with an open marriage, well you know)
RELIGION
Atheist - 1
Pagan/New Age - 2
Unknown - 8
Most people I date aren’t particularly religious.
APPEARANCE: BODY
Over 6’ tall - 10
Under 6’ tall - 1
Lean frame - 11
Apparently I like tall thin guys.
APPEARANCE: HAIR
Short - 3
Long - 8
Brown - 9
Blonde - 2
Guys with long dark hair seem to predominate
AGE
(all ages are at time of first sexual encounter)
18 - 2
19 - 1
20 - 1
29 - 1
?? - 5
34 - 1
I have dated guys from 2 - 14 years older than myself. One guy I think may have been younger than me by a year or two, but I’m not sure. He was also the only guy under 6’ that I’ve ever dated, and the only bisexual that I’m aware of. Cute though.
There is one guy that I left off this list, though. He doesn’t count. It wasn’t consentual.
I am shocked and appalled at some of the gay dudes and the meaningless sexual encounters they have just for the pleasure of it.
But mostly I’m just flat-out JEALOUS! I tried it long ago and it didn’t work for me. I suppose I could try it again, but I’m now so old and lumpy I’d probably get laughed out of the bars and I can’t drink anymore and the damned medication I take keeps me more or less flaccid and shy wasn’t I born gay so in these autumn years I could sit by the fire and reminisce about the thousands of faceless genitals I’d had. (Yes, I said faceless genitals. I’ll leave it in case someone can eke a joke out of it.)
As some wise satyr once said,“It’s the people you don’t do that you regret”.
I think Isoldah is either my ex-wife or one of my wife’s friends - based on the writing style I believe the latter. I got a phone call around the time of Isoldah’s post from my ex chewing me out for the post, accusing me of having a 4 inch penis and never having been able to give her an orgasm.
I’m a 23 year old teacher.
I have dated dozens of men in my life, way more than I should of, most of them in the dorm room college away from home sort of life.
I’m getting married in July.
I’ve never had sex with anyone - including the man I’m going to marry.
Informationally, of those who are sexually active in the 16-25 year old age bracket, 1 in every 2 has an STD.
It’s like playing russian roulette with 3 bullets.
Okay, I’m going to climb off my soap box now. Sorry.
I’m embarrassed to say that in the 14 years since I lost my virginity I have had only three sex partners. All have been single, and their religion wasn’t significant to me.
My age Her age Height Weight Hair
17 17 5'6" 190-200 Long brunette
20 22 5'8" 275-300 Medium red (dyed)
32 27 5'6" 210-220 Long brunette
Yes, I like big, overweight women as you can tell. And yes, that 12 year gap in between the last two is for real (I need to get out more).