It was in the pursuit of…a wild party where things got out of control.
On the second point, you never know. Keep on reading. 
I thought this thread was about if there were things that the reader would never carry out in real life or not. Maybe how I feel is different than other people, but it doesn’t make the opinion or the choice less valid. It is within the parameters of the OP & I disagree with you.
The thread is about sexual fantasies that you would never carry out in real life, and that is clearly something that you would carry out.
I have this fantasy that we will never carry out in real life: the baby is asleep in the next room and my wife and I are having sex, and when the baby wakes up…we don’t immediately stop having sex!
Speaking for myself, I didn’t think you were thread-shitting, I just didn’t grasp what your were getting at in your post.
Hi Count. It didn’t occur to me that Troppus was doing anything other than making a joke. Your response was entirely rational and mildly high-minded, so to curtly dismiss it as threadshitting was, I thought, funny.
It was a joke. That instagrammy, vasoline-lensed, tampon commercial romance in the middle of a clownsnuff deviance parade cracked me up. Sorry for hurting your feelings.
kinky!
I believe my reaction would be along the lines of “AAAAAAH! Are you insane?? A loaded gun is NOT a toy!!! Take that thing out, unload it, and then we need to have a looooong talk about proper gun safety and our relationship.”
Even a fake might be dangerous. Remember that actor who accidentally killed himself when he shot himself in the head with a blank? If I knew the gun was completely empty, then and only then would it be hot.
I didn’t mean a blank but maybe one that clearly looked like a bullet from the outside but had no gunpowder in it or maybe just a shell and you only see it while it’s in the chamber. But I think I get it, you would be freaked out if you thought there was real danger involved but would be turned on if you knew it was fake. I didn’t know if the latter would do it for you since in fantasyland, there’s a risk involved (at least an imagined one; it’s not like you imagine her dying 1/6 of the time) while in real life, there obviously wouldn’t be one. But it seems as long as you’re able to pretend there’s a risk, it works.
Even if there’s no risk, it’s still a hot woman masturbating while I watch.
And then she pulls out the gun, and another, and another, and another, and you’d swear there’s no room for them in there but they just keep on tumbling out.
Can’t blame you; your adherence to a higher morality is admirable.
For me, I think I could play a rapist, but I’d want something that distances the play from reality. An agreed-upon safe word is absolutely essential, but, more, I’d want both parties costumed. Wearing things we’d never actually wear in real life would emphasize the fantasy aspect of it all. Batman raping Catwoman, for instance: very obviously role-playing.
A friend of mine has a t-shirt: “My safe word is ‘ow.’”
No, he doesn’t really have any kinks and would probably be the textbook definition of vanilla. He’s not even into porn. I once asked him what he fantasized about, and he said, ‘‘You.’’ He is a different kind of guy than most. But without fail he is always generous and gentle.
Which I guess is my point. He may not be into my kinks, but we have earth-shattering lovemaking so it doesn’t matter.
As for me personally, I don’t think I’ve ever had a single fantasy that didn’t involve submission (more specifically, bondage.) I’m trying to think of anything else I have ever fantasized about, and I’m coming up blank.
You might be surprised as some of these youngins have been taking the cougar thing very seriously. :eek:
Well, this will be a weekend to remember. After the second party of the weekend, which I just got home from nearly 18 hours after it started, we can cross all the rest of the items off my prior list. I’m out. :smack:
Video or it didn’t happen.
Flip side of this here. I have some fantasies that some might consider extreme (and then some might not, I guess). My wife, however, although an enthusiastic sex partner, has pretty straightforward tastes in this area.
Oh, well, that’s how it goes. Can’t have everything. . .
Ha ha, sneak bragging or not, with all the hateful, shocking, and incredibly ugly non-consent discussions going on in the Pit and ATMB right now, this happy declaration of a healthy, consensual, and colorful sex life makes me smile. Good for you!
Well, high quality vanilla is a lot tastier than cheap almond mocha fudge ripple.
And there’s plenty of ways to do bondage where the ‘dom’ can be quite gentle. And if he’s turned on by ‘you’ (a common turnon for guys, seeing their partners aroused) then he might find that doing something gently controlling without being degrading or humiliating or pain-inflicting could be quite fun for him, once he sees your into it.
Or not. YMMV. Not all fantasies need to be realized.
[sub]gotta go get me two scoops of that premium caramel marshmallow fudge ice cream the Mrs. picked up. I’ve been craving it all weekend…[/sub]