Hey guys, this is a great site! Just thought I’d pose a scenario I’ve been mulling over.
I saw a girl this past weekend, and the date seemed to have gone pretty well. She indicated she wanted to meet again the following weekend (this weekend), and that I should call her to set that up. I am unable to reach her a couple days later so I leave a message. Unfortunately, the second I hang up the phone I already get the feeling that I didn’t follow her voicemail instructions properly (long story) and that the message may not have went through.
You can guess that she hasn’t contacted me back yet. I’m kind of thrown for a loop because, believe it or not, I’ve never had a girl tell me she wanted to go out again, and then not be able to talk to her again. Naturally, if she did get my message, she either changed her mind, or for whatever reason is unable to get back to me. Honestly, though, I’m really only about 50% sure that my message was properly saved.
At this point, my thought is just to give her a final call sometime early next week and just leave it at that. I guess what I’m hung up on is if she didn’t get my message at all, then my calling so much later would simply annoy her, and my reasons for not doing so earlier would just sound like a lame excuse. What do you think?