I just got my first number. So, I have some questions:
What should I do? It’s Friday night, so should I call her tomorrow? Or Sunday? I’ll see her in class on Monday, and I kinda want to talk to her before then…
An extra factor: She says she’s given her number to some other people (she didn’t specify gender), and she said she’ll just figure out what to do depending on who calls.
Congrats!
I’d call her late tomorrow afternoon, like 4:30-5:30, perhaps. Not over-zealous, and doesn’t leave her hanging, (or enable others to swoop in and make plans in the mean time) either.
Call her tomorrow. For sure. I’d suggest maybe even a little earlier, maybe 3-4. I know you don’t want her to think you’re too eager, but if she is interested, it won’t matter if she thinks that.
Personally, I’d say Sunday afternoon, about 2 or 3 p.m. That leaves you looking interested (same weekend) but not desperate (you had something going for Saturday night). Also, Sunday night dates are cool.
That is unless anything was said about a call Saturday; if you gave any indication as to when you’d call, that’s when you should call.
As long as this isn’t the pyjama pants wearing girl, call her late Saturday as Orange Skinner suggested. Don’t play the “wait to call so you look cool” game. It’s silly.
Find out what dorm she is in, and start licking her window.
Chicks dig that.
Really.
I just recently learned that this little game made you look foolish. I’d say call her later this afternoon (Saturday). If she thinks you look to desperate, then she wasn’t all that interested to begin with.
Anonymous, maybe it’s just me, but your name combined with that message made me chuckle.
I’ve decided on a plan: I have registration for Chinese lessons (yay) at 1:30, so I’m going to get home ~2:15, do some reading for an English project for ~an hour and then call her, and ask her if she’d want to go to a movie, and if she does, we can just figure it out which one on the phone.
Phew.
Wouldn’t it be practical to call before all those other people call & schedule a date?
A good plan except for one fatal flaw:
Speaker, if plans are a go, for og’s sake, leave the cape at home.
Update: I called her, and we’d talked for about two minutes when she asked “So, you wanna go out tonight, hey?”
We’re going to Matrix Reloaded at 9:25 and I’m picking her up.
As far as I know, it’s platonic, but… I’m hoping.
If it’s just the two of you going…and she was that enthusiastic…I’d say that’s definitely a good sign. Good luck!
"“So, you wanna go out tonight, hey?”
Oh, nice, she sounds aggressive. 9:25pm? That would bring her home about midnight, right?
