Just another who wants to wish you a fond “Have fun!” and a caution to be safe. Update as necessary. 
i would suggest taking his statement that anyone can request stopping activity as an absolute without reservation. everyone should get to set their pace and limits.
go slow if needed. it could take weeks or months to learn how to get along with your new playmates.
sounds like it could be done both as casual play as well a develop into serious friends. see how it goes.
“Don’t!”
“Stop!”
“Don’t!”
“Stop!”
“Don’t!”
“Stop!”
“Don’t!”“Stop!”“Don’tStop!”“Don’tStop!”“Don’tStop!”
I thought THR was maybe an acronym for threesome forum, but I see it is for a gun ownership forum called The High Road.
In any case, no, this is the only forum I frequent. Sorry to disappoint, or not?
I’d just relax and enjoy it. You’re not going to be invited to have one in your 70s
Well, this is probably good advice even if you aren’t off to the threesome. 
When I was single for a brief period of adulthood, my mother insisted that when I went out on a date that I do as above but even further she suggested to tell the trusted friend who/where (I think in this situation you can leave out the “what” ;)). And also to leave a note on my refrigerator with: where I was going, who with, his (their) address and/or phone number (if possible) and what time I expected to return. That way if I disappeared there would be a good place for (mom) to start looking.
Doing all of that is probably a little paranoid, but doing some of it is definitely good “just in case” advice.
I suppose live err, blow by blow, twitter updates are out of the question?
Have fun!
No answer yet. Mortification may be setting in.
BOOOOOO!!!
BOOOOOO!!!
Well, to be fair, if Han is half the man he’s cracking up to be, she won’t be able to taste his cigarette mouth if he, uh, does his job properly. Who ever heard of nicotine-stained labia?
Well, me now, unfortunately.
I hope you did whatever you felt comfortable doing. Han sounds nice enough and is aware of boundaries.
Even if all you did is snuggle in a pile of nakedness with an occasional kiss or stroke that is awesome. Even if you hugged them after the RHPS and went home, yay!
Just don’t get caught in a Han/Lea meltdown as your brief description gives me pause to think that she really thinks you’re hot, wants to do you but is shy or she thinks you’re hot, is pissed that Han does,too, and is looking for a slight to freak out about.
I have heard that green herbs help with the flow of these things though.
Happy thoughts your way!!!
Actually, I might disagree about the herbs thing. Not out of any puritanical objection, mind, but a practical one.
In my experience, which is not all that small, these things are best clear-headed. Anything uncomfortable ends up magnified post-event if filtered through any form of judgement-clouding substance. The worst thing about threesomes can be the aftermath. And being able to pin behavior on alcohol or other substances takes that sort of craziness to an all new level.
I always preferred to go into things clear-minded and open. That way when boundaries are reached they can be dealt with openly and quickly.
If you do it, enjoy it! In my experience the first couple of times are a real turn on and following that it gets sort of routine. You might find that once was enough for you and that’s that. Or you might find that it’s something you want to repeat with Han and Leia or with others. Either outcome is fine. What wouldn’t be find is being unhappy at the end.
Good luck.
The only objection i would have is the Rocky horror?? I just never got it… maybe meet up after the Wall… or Pulp Fiction…
lol… but some of the responses… i think we watch too many movies… shall she leave breadcrumbs as well???
I swear, I read this as “you always wonder if you wasted your mouth.”
I don’t know…I think if the only way I could get laid would be to be part of a group, I’d be a little depressed. I really like it when someone likes me best! Seems a bit like they are preying on the OP’s desperation.
Sooo… followup?
Yes, I too hope she checks in soon. I hope everything went well, if she indeed decided to go through with it.
Desparation? I didn’t sense that. There is a difference between not having sex and being desparate to have sex.
I would go even further and say that wanting sex is different than being desperate, the former being what I think the OP was trying to express. To be desperate means one would do (heh) just about anything to obtain what is desired. I didn’t sense that the OP was in that situation.