So I decided to start dating again after recovering from the nightmare that my last relationship turned into.
I met a girl on a dating website. We met for lunch. Lunch lasted five and a half hours.
We went on another date on Friday. I picked her up at 5:30. I took her home at 6:30 on Saturday. (We slept together but didn’t have sex, which was both our ideas)
I really rather dig this woman. She is way pretty. She is fun and interesting. And she is submissive.
We are txt’ing and talking all the time. I am quite into her. I am new at this, she knows and we will see what happens.
Did I mention that she is really, really hot. And totally fun to be around?
And here I thought you meant she was a substitute teacher. And I was surprised that there are people that make a full living at that.
For my education, if no one else’s, would you mind specifying what you mean as being submissive? I assume the sexual version means more than preferring to have someone tell her what to do.
Oh and here I was all thinking “well if this is in the Game Room, he must be talking about a date with a benchwarmer.” I wasn’t sure what kind of cache dating a benchwarmer from the WNBA might have.
Beware what you ask for. If she’s really into the whole dom/sub lifestyle, and you’re not really into being dominant, it might start to suck after a while.
I dated a woman who was not exactly like that, but she was all into role-playing, to the extent that we hardly ever had sex unless we were role playing. But sometimes, it was like, “Baby, I don’t feel like being a German Prison Camp Guard tonight, can’t we just fuck?” The relationship didn’t last.
I honestly thought he made a date with one girl online, and when it came time for the face to face date, she sent someone else in her place. Sometimes I enjoy the posts I make up in my mind based only on the thread title better than the ones I read.
**slee **- after following that last relationship, it is good to hear you are getting…back…in…the…nah, with the dom/sub aspect to this, it just is too easy!
I guess to build on **BigT’s **question - just as importantly, how did this come up in your first-date conversations?
Anyway, to answer some questions. We talked online and on the phone a bit before we met. That is when I found out about the sub thing. I am cool with it, I have been in a similar relationship in the past, though that was a bit different. That one was purely in the bedroom, while this is going to be more than that. We will see what happens with the relationship, maybe it won’t work. However, I am really intrigued by her. She is really pretty, fun and easy to be around.
We’ve already had some discussion of what to expect in the relationship and I am suffering any illusions about it. It will be work on my part, which I actually think is cool. It is also going to require me to be really in touch with what she is feeling. So it ought to be an interesting learning experience.
Then, just to add another complication to the situation, a woman at work has been hitting on me rather hard. She is also quite hot. I think that I am going to bypass that particular option though, too much possibility for odd work issues.
I’ll post more later. I was on call last night and I am rather beat*.
