So when is it acceptable to want to have sex with a woman?

Perhaps you forgot to unzip your trousers and dribble slightly? That ought to do it.

Well, when the mommy and the daddy really love each other very much they hold each other very close and …

Wouldn’t that be more appropriate for a basketball court?

I assume not with the OP.

When you’re straight. Or a lesbian.

When you’re introduced?

When I’m breathing.

Yeah, but said actions are considered creepy because they reveal certain thoughts. I floating the more rational idea that women were afraid of being raped or at least molested, but people seemed to turn that down. Women are by and large actually creeped out by knowing that certain people like them.

I mean, the creepiest person is the socially awkward who probably won’t hurt a fly, not the actual muscular guy who acts like a jerk to those around him.

It’s okay to want to have sex with a woman, or think about it.

It’s not okay to think that a woman is obligated to have sex with you, or that you “deserve” to fuck her more than guys she gladly has sex with, like her husband or boyfriend. It’s not okay to call women names because they don’t want to have sex with you. It’s not okay to try to intimidate, coerce, or force a woman to have sex with you. It’s not okay to go after “easy targets” for sex, like underage girls or the mentally challenged or what-have-you.

At the same time, it’s okay for a woman to want to have sex with you. She can think about it or fantasize about it. But it’s not okay for her to do any of those bad things to you, either.

The way I read the OP, he’s not talking about a general desire to have sex with some woman sometime, but wanting to have sex with a particular woman at a particular time.

And even that’s a bad way to explain it, as particular has two meanings. I don’t mean he’s thinking about a certain girl who he is not naming. It’s a particular woman only at that particular time.

EDIT: Note, I accidentally a word in my previous post. I “tried floating around” that idea.

I’m not super positive that you have much useful insight on the topic at hand.

If you don’t express those thoughts through your actions, nobody knows what you are thinking in the first place.

I kindof enjoy it when I piss people off and get accused of promoting rape culture on this board. It has happened at least once.

In answer to the OP’s question, as long as she doesn’t give you signs she is uncomfortable I think it is ok. If she wants you to fuck her, go for it. But I’d stop if she gives off negative signals.

You can think whatever the hell you want. The scary feminists aren’t going to come and get you for wanting to have sex.

Not while she is delivering a eulogy, piloting a reentering spacecraft, or sitting in your jury. I mean, you can want it, but it’s not considered acceptable to actually do it during those times.

Really – as long as you stay discreet she will not care.

Prude.

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Damn you ruined my fantasy.

It’s expressing that want to have sex that is the issue.

It’s acceptable to want it.

It’s unacceptable to think you’re entitled to it.

To want to have sex? Appropriate all the time except perhaps during Holy Communion or a funeral. Where you get into trouble is in how you express that desire.

The answer is found in a Tom Brady SNL sketch on sexual harassment in the workplace. Just follow that one and you will be good.