Without promoting the patriarchy/rape culture or infringing on their rights or expecting it in return for kindness tokens or offending feminists or being creepy
Always.
The mid-90s onward.
Only is she wants to have sex with you. Otherwise it’s creepy.
So you can’t want to have sex with a woman until what? She says she wants to have sex with you? Fills out an affadavit? Rips her clothes off and shouts “Fuck me!”?
I don’t see the least thing wrong with wanting to have sex with a woman at any time. It’s a thought not an action.
From what I understand, most straight men go around wanting to have sex with women all damn day, though it’s usually not in the forefront of their minds. It’s when you start looking like a wolf in an old cartoon, tongue hanging out and eyes bulging, that it starts to become a bit delicate. If steam comes out of your ears, it’s definitely going to be awkward. Same if your heart visibly beats through your shirt, extending about two feet in front of your chest each time.
You can want all the time. Its just more polite not to talk about it unless you think there’s a good chance she wants to have it with you. Which generally means not in the workplace, and not with total strangers (unless you’re at a club or something where people go to hook up).
From puberty onwards…
The ‘expecting it’/creepiness stuff is generally about your behavior, not about what you want in your mind. It’s about how your wants affect your actions.
Whenever you think about one or sex in general.
100% dyed-in-the-wool feminist here (and female), and I agree with this. There’s nothing at all wrong with “pantsfeelings” (to use Captain Awkward’s term); it’s where those thoughts and feelings get distorted into entitlement or some perception of obligation on the woman’s part that problems happen.
I was making a joke.
Personally, I think about sex all the time.
Puritans aside, it’s always acceptable to WANT to have sex with a woman. It’s what you do in service of that desire that is acceptable or unacceptable.
Too old for me.
Ok. Good thing too, because that answer was kind of creepy.
of course you do; you’re a zebra.
out there in the warm sun with hundreds of female zebras surrounding you frequently rubbing up against you in a herd frenzy. how other can you be expected to be.
That’s not my heart.
If you have to ask (the question above), probably never.
When the wind blows.
I’m wanting to have sex with a woman right now. You should have seen the inside of my mind when I was at the gym earlier today, I wanted to have sex with a woman than too. I’ve been wanting to have sex with women for over 40 years yet no feminists have pepper sprayed me. Am I doing it wrong?