Well, if we agree, then why are we arguing?
I DON’T HAVE A GODDAMN CHIP ON MY SHOULDER YOU -
yust kidding… 
I had a friend who was gay once… He died of aids
Alright, what the HELL is that supposed to mean?!!! What is your problem, you damn Canuck?! Why do you insist on pulling attitude with me?! Maybe we should just take it outside and settle this.
Oh.
Never mind, then.
We were arguing? I thought I was just posting my comment about the whole comformity/non-conformity issue to no one in particular, dearie?
Well, i hope there’s no bad blood. Hug?
This seems like the perfect thread to make this confession:
I’m left-handed.
I tried to deny it for years because of all the hatred and viterol directed towards me (The sneers whenever I asked for a pair of left-handed scissors in Art class; the snickers when I threw the ball left-handed in recess), but it’s true. I’m ashamed of my condition. I know it’s a sin: Satan is on the left, just like the Bible says. Besides, if left-handedness wasn’t a Sin, then God would have provided more left-handed friendly things on this world than Toll Booths and Drive Thrus.
I try to hide my condition as best as I can, just like Brood suggests. I write right-handed in public, I scratch my crotch and my ass with my right hand only.
But, in the dark, I still masturbate with my left hand. 
The fear of being labled a Leftist is with me every day.
I know I’m immoral and peverted. I just pray that someday I will have the strength to finally cast away my wrong-handedness for good.
Oh course you are sick inmmoral. Remember, Hitler was left-handed and anyone who says otherwise just has an agenda.
Since you are capable of being right handed in public, clearly you can learn to be right handed inprivate. Try electro-shock therapy. Everytime you use your left-hand, shock yourself.
Also, try aversion therapy. This is where you give yourself a drug to induce nausea. Then you watch film wear people use their left hand. Then you give yourself a drug to counter the effects of the nausea and watch films with right handed people.
Soon you will be able to go about using your right hand. Everytime you have the urge to use your left hand, that will be your clue that something is wrong in your life and needs to be fixed. once you fix the problem, the urges to use your left hand will ease.
If none of this works, then I vote that you just chop of the hand and eleminate the source of temptation completely.
Doob:
hug
lingering grope
Wait… so now feeling that a moral objection to a natural sexual preference is silly equates to not having ANY morals??? Yeah, I’m more convinced than ever that you’re a bigot.
Can I just say that all this arguing about conformity/nonconformity reminds me of the Simpsons episode when John Waters was on? I just keep thinking of Homer’s ever so catchy phrase:
“I like my beer cold, my tv loud, and my homosexuals FA-LAMING!”
I just like how he pronounces “fa-LAMING!”
Mmmm Matt, you sure do know how to make a boy feel special :D.
grope, grope
hearing Portishead in the background… It could be sweet, like a long forgotten dream…
To be bruatly fair, it isn’t inconsistant to find a natural aspect of human nature immoral. Not very useful, but it is possible. There are quite a few people who find allowing yourself any kind of sexuality immoral.
I don’t really like the “It’s not a choice,” response to homosexuality, because the phrasing implies that it would be immoral if you could choose.
Most people arn’t arguing that you shouldn’t “be” gay, they’re saying that they want you to supress your homosexual attraction, in the same way that I’m expected to supress my homocidal impulses.
The fact that homosexual attraction isn’t distructive and twisting my neighbors head off would be is what most of these people seem to be missing. Or, put annother way, the fact that homosexuality isn’t wrong is the important issue, not weither or not you can select it.
That brings us to the whole “desires arn’t moral or immoral, it’s what you do with them” aspect of philosophy, but, as I said, not everyone accepts that, unfortunatly.
I grew up three miles from Northampton Mass. You tend to pick up a few things in the process.
He was only gay once? Was he a hindu?
I’m sorry. I shoudn’t joke about these kinds of things.
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Not gay. Am a pervert, though.
What has always stunned me is the fact that some people feel they need to get in on the buisness and personal lives of others. I’ve never seen gay people express physical affection in public, except at a gay pride rally or a large gay function associated with gay pride.
I’m not opposed to PDAs. All of my boyfriends in the past were and so is my current. I don’t think it should be anything out of the ordinary. I think it is a normal, human expression of love and sharing. Lord knows I see heterosexuals mauling each other in public all over the place and as that is accepted by the masses, it is ok.
It is often these same people who get icked out by seeing two men kiss or hug. They feel they have some right that is being infringed by watching two men in love express affection. In some cases they will complain to whatever authority is around, or if not, take matters into their own hands and go gay bashing.
The mores of society for the most part annoy me. They codify some behaviour that I find repellant. And others that I think should be the norm, are not. And I have to deal with zealots and homophobes on television and in face to face transactions that would attempt to limit my freedom of movement and expression. I think being gay should be as novel as having green eyes. But, society gives a rat’s ass.
I don’t.
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Saw matt_mcl’s pic yesterday on the people of the Straight Dope page. Since I’m not single and can’t plight my troth, can I fantasize when I’m with my boyfriend? 
What a babe.
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Get over yourself, Zero! Being gay has nothing to do with morals, whatever you believe. You may as well rail against people with blue eyes, brown skin, or Jewish ancestors. Anyway you look at it, you’re being an idiot.
Well… hmm other minorities? I’m assuming this crosses over into race. Problem with that is, that in race, you can’t hide who you are. And if you’re homosexual, you shouldn’t have to. I agree with others that when a Gay person does something a straight person does, it automatically turns into something nasty. I’m not gay, but I know how it is to be discriminated against, and believe me, I didn’t run around screaming… I’M BLACK! I’M BLACK! People just kinda… notice. I am not against homosexuality, but I’m also not like… EVERYONE BE GAY! Because personally, why should I be? My best friend is gay, and that’s great! He’s awesome! And because of him i’ve gotten to know alot of people who are homosexual, and they are a wonderful group of people.
much luv
Jenny*
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A better pic is going to be added Real Soon Now… check back for that.