I’ve never been obese, so I can’t really speak to the whole psychological issue that people are talking about, since I’ve never experienced it. I have, on the other hand, been overweight since middle school. Not severely, but enough to make me feel bad about myself (with teenage hormones, this isn’t hard). I was brought up in a household that ate correctly, so I knew what to eat right. When my parents split up (age 6), I lived half with each parent - my mother was the good eater, my dad the bad food. So I’ve had both experiences.
All in all, I’ve eaten relatively well most of my life, apart from the candy bars I would buy after school and eat (then hide the wrappers because I knew I’d get THAT LOOK from my mother). Not a serious problem, but enough that I didn’t have confidence in myself. Plus, I didn’t exercise - I started a little my senior year, but didn’t lose a lot of weight.
Then I went to college and took exercise classes at school and thus I built up a fair amount of muscle, but didn’t really lose much weight (can’t really tell if I lost fat, though I imagine I lost some).
My senior year in college I signed up at Bally’s and started a high-impact hip hop step class (the type where you have to go for months before you know all the moves - there’s no teaching in the class, you just have to pick it up, thus it’s more fast-paced and high-intensity). I did that plus a kickboxing class. Didn’t really lose that much fat, but I was more in shape.
Went to Europe for a year. Came back, signed up at Bally’s again, then I started secret shopping for McDonald’s, so I gained about ten pounds in about a year (though still working out regularly). I stopped doing that several months ago (spring). In about June maybe I had my body fat tested and it came back 31%, which isn’t great, and I got a huge lecture from the guy at Bally’s, saying that I obviously had to work out more or that I wasn’t doing it right. Whatever.
Then I started reducing the carbs in my diet. I still have cereal with milk every morning, and if I go out to dinner I’m likely to have pasta or rice. But most of the time I’m having veggies and protein with a dash of carbs thrown in. I still have gatorade (which has carbs) and sodas and all.
At first, like Morrigoon (sp?) said, I had problems with diarrhea. I have never been a big veggie fan, and upping my consumption of them and lowering my carbs had an effect on my digestion (another reason to ease into it). Also, sometimes I’d have a salad for lunch, and then crash out in my step class because I hadn’t had enough energy. So now I’m trying to snack more (go humus!!) so I don’t have that problem.
When it comes down to it, with upping my step class from three to four days a week, and really going at it instead of just doing the moves plus diet plus the weight machine I just got at home, I’ve lost 7 lbs so far (in about three or four weeks) and I’m down to 27% body fat.
There’s no way I could do an Atkins DIET. The problem with that is the word diet. I’m trying to change my lifestyle. I’m not going to go down to 20g of carbs per day for two weeks. There are certain foods I’m not going to not eat. Since I exercise and am fit (I’m still 163, but I seriously don’t look it - I got in an argument with my co-worker last month because she steadfastly refused to believe I could weigh 170), I’m not going to begrudge myself ice cream occasionally.
What I find more horrible than a fat person are the stick figures I see at the gym…the other day I saw a woman whose veins were popping off her legs like a body builder - only she wasn’t one, she was stick thin. I know that just like large people have trouble getting thin (I’ve been fighting to keep my weight down for years and genetics does work against me as my father and grandmother both have the same build), thin people can have trouble staying large enough to be healthy.
But when I see someone so thin I feel like I’m going to break them by touching them, with their veins popping out, I feel like they have more need of counseling - it is seriously hard to grow up female in this country without having issues about your body. It’s very hard. As much as I know that I’m healthy and fit and don’t really need to lose a lot of weight and all, I still feel compelled to do it just because that’s what I’ve been trained by society to do.
Imagine how much more pressure there must be for a fat person if I feel the pressure that much when I’m a fit 24 yo who looks 20 lbs under my weight and I still feel I need to lose weight.