I think the theme of this season for Tony is realizing what everyone in his life thinks of him, and it ain’t pretty.
When he has it out with Dr. Melfi, she tells him she could never get involved with him, not because she finds him unattractive or because she doesn’t like him as a person, but because she doesn’t respect his morals. This pisses him off and he calls her a cunt, and I wondered why. Had he never considered that an educated, cultured woman would not want to be romantically involved with a known murderer and criminal? Apparently not-- he is too immersed in his world and too used to women who either ignore his amoral lifestyle or find it to be an aphrodisiac. This was his first wake-up call.
Next, Carmella tells him he has no friends, only flunkies who laugh at his jokes but don’t really love him. This causes a rare (but ever more frequent) moment of reflection for Tony, during that slo-mo shot at the end of all his “friends” yukking it up. The only one not laughing was Feech, which may be why Tony didn’t whack him… or maybe that’s why Tony had to get rid of him.
This week, Tony discovers that no one could possibly believe he was alone in a car with an attractive woman and wasn’t banging her, even when that woman is Adrianna. He is guilty until proven innocent, and even guys who are supposed to be in his inner circle (Silvio, Paulie, Bobby) are quick to spread and even embellish these vicious and destructive rumors. Worst of all, Christopher, who he is grooming to be his #2, would point a gun at him over these rumors. In this ep, Tony was trying to be good, but he’s the boy who cried wolf, and when the wolf comes, the only person who will help him is Carmella. Interesting.
I don’t know where this season is going for Tony, but it seems that the hollowness of his life and his moral bankrupcy are becoming ever more apparent to him. Also, no one else mentioned this, but Tony has cancer! He said they “got it all,” but… who knows? What better an occasion for reflection, and a moment to see who his true friends are, than Tony undergoing chemo?
This is shaping up to be a juicy season.