Straight Men, Intimacy and Porn

Senior Smith, perhaps what many sex shop sites call “couple’s movies” might be more to your taste, though I can’t think of many off the top of my head that just feature women. You could take a look, though.

Well, I happen to think the exact opposite. Sexual tension in movies isn’t arousing because you know you’re not going to see actual sex. You may get a ten second “sex scene” and see a nipple if you’re lucky.

Also, mainstream movies aren’t filmed around showing off the beauty and sexual tension of these girls. They sometimes get it, but it’s usually by accident. However, that would be my main focus.

I guess I’ll just say this. If you don’t find two girls simply kissing a huge turn on by itself, then you’re never going to “get” what I’m describing. However I think, many, many men do find it hot. All I’m trying to do is build up on top of this concept.

Do a google image search for “girls kissing”. Find your favorite picture. Now imagine if one of the girls was replaced by a guy. Would it still be arousing? Kissing is an act of intimacy.

Yeah. Listen, porn is great, it’s fantastic for getting yourself off, but I find that after a while, it really gets in the way of your very own fantasies. Try masturbating without using porn for a while – fantasize about exactly the kind of situation you’d find erotic in real life. Or not even – we all have fantasies that are hot as fantasies but would be completely unfeasible in real life for whatever reason. But try jacking off without porn, fantasizing about whatever rocks your socks, and see if that improves stuff for you.

Okay, again, why are you even looking at porn so much anyway? Jeez, dude, get a girlfriend! I mean, I think the girls in porn are nasty too. So I don’t watch it. Is this a lot more of a guy thing than I’m aware of? My boyfriend doesn’t like porn girls either (he sounds a lot like you actually, Senior, except he doesn’t dig lesbians either), so you know what he does? He doesn’t watch porn!

Doesn’t that seem like the answer to your dilemma?

eta: sorry, I didn’t mean to show up twice like that

Wow, you finish in three :faps:? It takes me at least five.

I third (or fourth) it. Then again, I don’t watch porn, and it’s partly because of this. Well, the main reason is that in the 100-200 non-classical erotic nekkid pictures I’ve seen, only 1 or two are either cute or beautiful. They might turn my head walking down the street when I saw their body, but I’d quickly look the other way upon seeing their dour frowns. Now, I don’t want women to all be simpering happy pep club girls, but you should look like you’re at least capable of smiling.

Ahem, onto the actual topic. Well, I’ve never seen girl-on-girl porn, but making it more intimate would be more arousing, from what I’ve seen. Wouldnt even necessarily have to be as detailed as the OP suggests but, still, it seems there’s a market for it bigger than for Dwarf Dom Scatlovers 4 Teen Male Sluts.

I’m glad you brought this up. Like you. I’m hating the fact that my lesbian porn is fucked up by having actual lesbians as actors. What the fuck is up with that?
Seriously, you remind me of Steve Carell’s character in the 40 Year Old Virgin. Why don’t you go out and get laid first, and then come back and talk to us?

Okay, so Stern and Carolla are misogynist, and Aiken is a girly man. So you must be somewhere inbetween, yet you are completely unlike any other male.

Just go get laid already.

PS: Aaaaaaadam…

I would so rent the movie the OP proposes.

Seriously, it is damn near impossible to find something I can watch with the girlfriend and have both of us get aroused by it. It completely kills the mood when I have to explain to my on-the-verge-of-being-offended girlfriend why that guy, who looks like he just got out of prison, thinks it is ok to practically cock choke the aging bimbo with the bad breast implants.

I mean seriously, how is that sexy? He didn’t even help her get off! News flash: girls do not orgasm from their faces getting ejaculated on. Hell, that doesn’t even feel as good for the guy! Just stay in when you splurt! Trust me, much better! No, that is not how you pleasure a woman orally either! I’m not sure exactly how any guy could believe that fake moaning and dead look in the eyes is actually real lust. Complete turnoff.

I swear if not for Abby Winters I’d have given up on this video porn thing long ago and just stuck to Literotica.

Do I have to turn in my “guy card” now?

Get with the times, retard. Ever since the mid-90s where every female on earth under 26-years-old declared herself to be bisexual, it’s sort of lost its allure.

This happens whenever a group of attention whores flock to the New Thing. See also: tattoos and body piercings.

What once was hot is now commonplace skankery.

At first there was mostly mockery, and maybe a little discussion. Now it’s moved on to nothing but petty little insults.

I don’t think porn is something people should be ashamed of. And no, nerdy basement dwelling virgins aren’t the only people who enjoy porn. Every guy masturbates. And a vast majority of men watch porn, even those in relationships.

I really don’t see how telling me to get a girlfriend, or to get laid, has anything to do with the topic at hand. If you don’t like porn, think it’s disgusting, immoral or only something sex deprived losers enjoy, then maybe you should go create another thread about it.

I think if you guys actually read everything I’ve said, you’ll see that there’s a lot here to discuss. I don’t see how the main focus has become how I most be some freak of nature because I actually want something more from porn.

I don’t know where you get the impression you’re particularly unique in this, or any, regard. I suggest you simply advance your views without the claims of martyrdom for holding said views.

Why do you keep coming back here? You already stated that I don’t anything worthy to say, so why would you continue to read my posts?

While I understand that this may not be important to you, it is for me. It’s something that has been bothering me for a long time, and I thought it would be nice to talk about it and hear other people’s opinions. I don’t know if I’m perceiving this the wrong way, but it seems like you’re coming in here only to find the opportunity to call me an idiot. It’s almost as if you get off on it.

Would it kill you to actually try to add something to the conversation, or maybe just resist the urge to post?

And where did the OP get an entire sackful of turds to compare life to :dubious:

Don’t let the assholes get to you.
Whenever somebody posts something in the Pit there are always people who just have to be nasty and insulting.
There is nothing wrong with your OP, except for the fact that you don’t take into account the simple economics.
It would be much pricier to produce a porn like you are describing and the audience would be too small.

Which would suggest a proper place for it might be CS or MPSIMS.

Honestly I posted this in the pit because I thought the topic of porn, especially how detailed my descriptions, seemed a bit off-color for the other subforums. That and a lot of my concepts and ideas come off as angry rants.

I don’t mind if this is moved, but I think we may have missed that window by now.

Could someone explain to me what the hell, beyond posting this thread in the wrong forum, Senior Smith has done to deserve insults and abuse?

And are you volunteering to spread 'em for some guy who only wants you as a porn substitute? :dubious:

What ho!