I bet most straight males would rather have oral sex with a man than french kiss him. I think kissing is pretty intimate, and would have a harder time kissing a woman I didn’t like than having sex with her.
I made a mistake here, the same one Skammer did. I voted ‘I’ve never kissed another dude, but I might do so to win a bet or whatnot.’ That was before the tongue was required to be involved. That is something beyond the pale for me.
But, then again, apparently kissing a male in that manner is something that my girlfriend really likes. As they say, YMMV.
I’ve Frenched a guy to win a bet, but it would take approximately eleventy blobillion dollars to get me to blow another guy.
Or a gun to my head; I’m not stupid.
Peck on the lips and a hand on the boobies. But not a “kiss” as you defined it, no.
I never have and have no desire to, but if I had some particular reason to, like winning a bet for something good, then why not? Not my cup of tea, but I’ve kissed men I wasn’t attracted to and not even gotten anything for it.
I did once on a dare. Wouldn’t do again. Got nothing from it, no excitement, no disgust, just a waste of time really. It was a stupid dare.
I think people who are grossed out at kissing a member of the same sex (or opposite sex for a homosexual), or even performing a sex act are kinda strange. I am not grossed out at the thought of a woman kissing a man or giving a man a blowjob, why would it be gross if a man did the same act? It doesn’t turn my crank, but why would it be gross? Does anybody else feel this way?
Never had the desire or need to.
You pony up enough dough, though, and Bob’s your uncle.
We’re talking new car dough, not 2 sacks of Krystals, which is my usual remuneration for services rendered.
Yikes, I’d recommend you stay out of the gambling business 
The idea of people doing it doesn’t gross me out at all. The idea of me doing it does a little. No idea why, but then again I have no idea why eating bugs grosses me out. Some stuff is just hard wired I guess.
I’m not grossed out, particularly, by a man french kissing (or blowing I guess) another man. I’m grossed out by me doing it.
Anything to win a bet, eh guys?
I meant my comment to be more about kissing than blowing, but I get the reaction.
Nah. By actual count, there are 245,943,541 things I won’t do for money. I’m just not squicked out enough by the notion of kissing a guy to add it to the list.
I don’t kiss people I’m not attracted to.
I don’t think it’s analogous - after all, straight men have a much larger pool of potential partners than do gay women. What if the person you kissed wasn’t in on the bet? It seems far crueler to tease or lead on the person with the limited dating pool.
I was at a party, and kissed my girlfriend. Another guy said, “I’m jealous.”
So I kissed him.
I was promiscuous and bi-curious through my 20’s, so yeah. The times I spent with other women, though, were spent with at least one dick in the room, too. It didn’t take much for me to figure out I really wasn’t into other girls, but had fun in the meantime.
Count me on the spectrum with SeaDragon, although I am more ok with girls. If there were no attractive men in the universe, and a crapload of nice attractive girls, I’d have no real troubles being a lesbian, but it’s not where I’d end up voluntarily.
In fact, what’s really vastly amusing is that I’ve actually french-kissed quite a few more girls than I have guys. Have to say that girls are the better kissers in my experience - much more responsive and not so demanding. Also, less moustache/beard hairs getting all scritchy in the way.
I doubt I’m that good at kissing (I don’t really like it) that she’s gonna fall in love with me or anything just because we kiss 
But I don’t think the question was supposed to take into account the possibility of hurting someone’s feelings.
There is a lot of potential baggage that may or may not be implied in the scenario, depending on the people involved.
There’s the issue of feelings or the squick factor. But there’s also cultural baggage. Maybe it’s because I came of age circa 1992, when feminists were still calling women “wimmin” or “womyn”, but I learned to associate lesbianism with a political statement against the patriarchy and with avoiding the Big Bad Rapist.
Male homosexuality is allowed to be fun - two guys kissing is just two guys having fun. Female homosexuality is about duty and safety. Or something.
So the idea of kissing another woman brings up too many negative feelings - I’d be feeling squicked out because there’s one too many women in the scene, I’d be feeling guilty because I’m not permitted to feel squicked out, and I’d be feeling sad because something fun had turned into a politicized chore.