I work with plenty of gay men. A few of them are some of the best indivduals I know… but I don’t fall for them.
I’ve fallen for female co-workers, but never a gay male co-worker.
I guess I think of my gay co-workers and friends as brothers. Great people but not interested in them sexually.
Well, I must add here that the one or two gay men I fell for, I didn’t know they were gay till it was Too Late! Then we became good friends, after a suitable time of me swanning around being tragic like Susan Hayward in Back Street.
Of course, I’ve fallen for straight men, too—but that’s never worked out, either.
Maybe my friend and I should pretend to be gay to capitalize on this phenomenon…
Never been in love with a gay man, but my roommate was and still is in love with J. Almost 20 years now, she never married, hasn’t dated as far as I know, is still a technical virgin and is still maintains contact with him.