I think Tuckerfan, your beef, if you will, is sound. Folks who look down on others who have had sex outside of marriage have a problem.
But, every other paragraph in your rant just doesn’t back up your complaint. It just sounds like you’re upset because virgins don’t enjoy sex with you because they haven’t been stretched out enough. That, and also, there are apparently scores of virgins who get married and then divorce because of lack of sexual experience. Um, whatever.
Oh, and I don’t have a big dick, I’ve just got a really small body.
This is so romantic and sweet. It’s nice to imagine women as horses…or trick monkeys even.
For the record, I am not nor have I ever been uptight about sex, as many folks know, nor were my parents. And I waited until my wedding night to have sex with my husband…and it made it so special and wonderful that while I didn’t think I HAD to do it, I’m glad I did.
You make a really good point, actually. In a male-dominated society, it would certainly make sense to attempt to control and restrict the sexual activities of females, so that most males can be certain that the offspring they’re putting resources and time into raising are their own. It might also make sense for females to play along with this to an extent in an effort to ensure they can get the maximum resource output from their partners. Of course, this would only work in species which form pair bonds and co-raise their young. Other species obviously employ other strategies to deal with this problem.
Not saying this is morally right or anything- I’m a woman, and I feel that adhering to tribal sexual politics is in this day and age at best a pretty moot concern. Just pointing out a possible biological reason for all these weird hang-ups.
What is up with all these virgins? Who cares about “purity” and all that…actually what does having sex have anything to do with being pure? Are people having sex filthy? Sex is an animal instinct and natural. If I believed in God, I would say we should have sex because why would God makes us so horny to have sex if he/she didn’t us to? Why is there such an emotional attachment to sex anyways? My dog has no problem humping the carpet or the pillow, does it mean he loves the carpet or the pillow? It just like taking a dump or picking your nose, it doesn’t mean anything other than sticking your dick into someone’s vagina (or asshole). Blah!
I’ve got no problem with virgins. I am one myself. It’s people who choose to be virgins that piss me off. Mostly because they always seems to be incredibly attractive people, people who could get laid inside of fifteen minutes if they wanted to. Meanwhile, I’m over here desperate and lonely and feeling like an Ethiopian at a convention of anorexics. Bastards! I hate them all.
I realize my feelings on this issue may not be entirely rational. If you found anything I said here offensive, bite me.
It’s not just sex - it’s someone wanting you. If lots of people want to fuck you, you do care less about it. But if they don’t, you wonder what’s wrong.
lol
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My dick’s so big it ought to be called a richard
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