Anybody who can relate to the first 11 seconds of this clip from Trainspotting <– possibly NSFW will understand the thrust of this thread.
Bring on your tales of nights when you were invisible. Expound upon the joys of obliviously shooing away a person who you want to attract.
Clueless of the world unite and commiserate!
In high school I had a crush on Debbie (not real name.) For months I mooned over her, thought about her, fantasized about her. In fact I did everything but talk to her.
Close to the end of the year we got on the bus together and despite the number of empty seats she sat next to me.
Debbie starts in about how Peter O’ Toole is her favourite actor and how much I remind her of him.
Me: [internally] She’s comparing me to a drunk, womanizing notorious asshole.
Me [Verbally] But I’m nothing like him.
D: Oh yes you are and I think he is the coolest person ever.
Me: No, really, I’m nothing at all like that.
This went on for the whole 20 minutes of the bus ride. Finally we reached our destination and went our separate ways.
Two months later I was taking a piss when the scene flashed through my head unbidden and a very loud and annoyed voice in my head yelled, “She was trying to pick you up asshole!”
Observation skills such as these in combination with my scintillating and welcoming personality are likely why I was a virgin until 21 and the next best thing till I was 24.
Zeke