Any websites out there that offer FREE advice on girl’s body language? Anyways, my question here is about a friend of mine. She laughs at almost everything I say, she smiles and looks at me a lot. She looked my phone-number up and called continuosly for two days. Does she like me or not? She has a great personality and stuff. But I want to know for sure. Thanks.
There is no “for sure” when it comes to women. But this one sounds pretty close. Go for it.
Either she really likes you, or she’s really psycho. Or, both. :eek:
Did she talk to you, when she called continuously for two days? Or, are we talking prank calls?
Well the first time, she called all the Mikes in the book. The second day she called some guy that knows me and he asked why and she said because we were going to go watch a movie (remember we’re just friends…but i asked her if we could move to next week, she said sure) he gave her the number and she called and asked stuff about me, like what race i am, how old i am, what type of music, movies i like. What instrument do I play? And stuff about my family. No, no prank calls.
What the heck does she have to do–beat you over the head? I swear, men are so clueless! 
Yeah, it sounds like she likes you. She’s smiling at you, she’s interested in you, she went through great pains to get your phone number…why would you think that she doesn’t like you? If you’re not getting any creepy “psycho” vibes, go for it!
wow. Thats what EVERYONE else says but i thought they were just saying that.
She is beating you over the head. The only way she could be less subtle is to ask you out herself.
Or she is psycho and stoking her ego. You’ll ask her out and she’ll say “Oh, I just want to be friends.” But then you know she’s a psycho bitch.
So don’t make wedding plans until you’ve asked her out and discovered if she is really interested in you or just being a psycho bitch.
Dude, if she called all the “Mikes” in the book… well… let’s just say I’d keep a close watch on any small, furry pets around the house… especially… say… rabbits, maybe.
Just for the record, women don’t ask questions about men they’re not interested in. Why would we?
A very large rock hits fauxpas in the head
fauxpas, “What’s that?”
::lol::
“And yet the motives of women are so inscrutable. You remember
the woman at Margate whom I suspected for the same reason.
No powder on her nose – that proved to be the correct solution.
How can you build on such a quicksand? Their most trivial action
may mean volumes, or their most extraordinary conduct may depend
upon a hairpin or a curling-tongs. Good morning, Watson.”
- ARTHUR CONAN DOYLE’s SHERLOCK HOLMES
Which is what she just should have done in the first place.
That’s what I was thinking. Bunny boiler in the making. 
Or, I could be wrong. How old is the girl? If she’s under 20, we’ll chalk it up to naive infatuation.
Also, how come she asked for your race when talking to your friend? I’m assuming she knows what you look like.
What Sock Munkey said. If she’s not mature enough to make a move, you should move first: in the other direction. If she wants to live in the 1950s, fine. Make a date with her to split a malted down at the 5-and-dime. If she wants to get together with you today, though, she should be an adult about it.
I used to think there was something wrong with me because I wanted the girl to make the first move. Some therapy later, and I realize I just didn’t want to put up with all that game-playing shit.
I think she has pretty much gone half way. If the man can’t be arsed to go his own half, he is useless.
I disagree strongly. Half-way is saying, “I like you and would like to get to know you better.” Not implying it. Not suggesting it. Saying it. That’s half way. The other person’s half is, “I like you, too. Let’s see what happens.”
Quick, someone hit him with a clue-by-4!
Speaking as someone who has used the clue-by-4 to good avail (inviting myself over to his place 
), let me just say that some women do not know where the half-way line is. Neither do some men. The lack of agreement on half-way line is a major problem.
It also varies by local subculture (some areas it is assumed that the woman makes loud ‘I’m interested noises’ but, to not step on emotional toes, does not actually ask. This allows the guy to take the next step and make it a reciprocal agreement - by doing so they both know they are together by mutual choice, rather than agreeing simply because it would be to embarassing to say no. The reverse applies in other areas, but basically, by indicating interest without asking, it leaves the zone open to mutuality before the first date.)
Anyway, my dear husband epeepunk needed the clue-by-4 to the head. Hard. Twice.
We’ve gone over his other girl-encounters prior to me. Most had tried all sorts of things to get him to notice they were interested more than just friendly-like. I remember one particularly yummy redhead spending much of the summer with him and then him sending her a letter talking all about his new girlfriend at college. She was crushed, but I advised her that the man was a clue-free zone. He’d never noticed that they were essentially dating, without the smooching. He thought they were just friends. OOPS.
Another case in point, my ex-fiance’ (pre-ep), who started dating me, got engaged, and in prep for moving back to our area told the people he hung out with, including one major hottie, who was stunned. She didn’t know he was available, she’d been waiting for him to make the ‘I’m interested’ precursor signs so that she could ask him out! He had assumed that since she didn’t make any precursor ‘I’m interested’ signs, she wasn’t interested, so he didn’t pursue it.
Ah, the fun of dating. I’m so glad I’m not there anymore!
So, while the phone routine might seem extreme, if all other clue attempts have failed, she may just be trying her version of a clue-by-4.
Incoming clue-by-4! Quick hint: Don’t duck! Ask her out.
For myself, I wasn’t sure if Mrs. Prefect would go out with me if I asked until we were making out in one of the piano rooms at school. We can be pretty clueless.
That means, yes, she probably likes you.
Personally I’d say yeah, she’s hitting you with her version of a clue by 4. As a girl who has trouble asking guys out (Yeah I’m still kinda shy) That’s the sort of thing I do.
Heck, I’m going on a date tonight with a cool guy. I kinda did what she’s doing. The only difference was he knew I liked him because half the people we know knew I liked him and constantly teased me within his hearing. I was trying to get up the gumption to ask him out, when another girl took it into her own hands and suggested that the two of us go out to a movie or something, to him. I also knew he was interested because he was asking the same people a few things about me.
He agreed and we exchanged numbers, I called him this morning and he had told me he was gonna call me later today anyway. So we’re meeting for coffee and maybe dinner this evening!
But yeah in all this rambling of this I’d just go with my original statement. It’s a clue-by-4! Ask her out! If you’re interested of course 
It is hard to tell where halfway is. Though if I am really interested I’ll usually find someway to ask. The first guy I ever asked out was asking me how the boyfriend situation looked at the time and I said “There’s no one right now. Why? Are you looking to fill the position?” I couldn’t believe I had actually said that :eek: But you know what? It worked!
I’m with the ones who said she should’ve just asked him. If he’d behaved towards her exactly as she has so far behaved towards him, how would you advise her to interpret it?