ok so its ABSOLUTELY IMPOSSIBLE to know how to go about trying to date someone. being a girl, i always feel as if the guy would never ever be so (pathetically) excited about possibley dating me as i would be him. and i’m really not one of those girlie girls…i’d say i’m more of a dude thats a girl(not in a freaky way) but yea i just never know if i should just go for the guy or take it slowly or play hard to get…i mean dude its impossible to tell. and maybe it just depends on the person but i’d just like some help. so any advice opinions, ANSWERS would be greatly appreciated 
ok its me again…and i’m sorry i think i have this question on the wrong section…so i’m just gunn amove it yo
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Welcome to the boards (yeah, it’d be better in IMHO but there is sort of a factual answer to this) The answer to this question is almost certainly you should just go for the guy if you don’t mind some short-term embarrassment.
There was a computer simulation awhile back that took 100 women and 100 men and had the men ask out the women in order of the MEN’s preference, which is how it seems to work out in the real world. Then, if the men didn’t get their first pick, they asked their next-favorite on their list, and the woman being asked out got to choose whether or not to change partners.
The net result is that the MEN actually came out with the best partners for them, despite the fact that it was the women who chose whether to leave or not. So even if you have more dating opportunities than most guys, you are probably not getting your best selection of people doing the asking!
That’s it for the GQ part of your question.
One word of advice, though: a lot of men have to be subtle when asking out women, and some but not all women think you don’t have to be subtle when asking out men, which isn’t true, either. Every situation and man is different just like women, and some would probably appreciate you sweeping them off their feet while others would appreciate trying to get to know them slower while others like you said would prefer a more traditional chase/being hard to get. You just have to ask yourself if the potential is worth the downsides, which aren’t very great unless they’re your good friend or workmate. (Of course, I have dated very few girls so I’m a big hypocrite.)
thas ok as u seam tu hav figered it out. ill close it 4 u.
samclem yo