Normally, yes, but in this case I seriously believe it’s just a matter of Sheboss making plans for us taking days off exactly “never” and taking it personally when we want to. See her remarks to MathGirl about not being paid for taking 2 hours to go get her boobs checked, and her famous line “but how can you do this to me?” which belongs more on the vocabulary of a spurned lover than that of a manager. I mean, seriously, which kind of boss asks “but how can you do this to me?” whenever someone announces a doctor’s appointment or requests a day off?
We’re having training in the morning and meetings in the afternoon, with at least two people from our team in every single meeting. There was no need for anybody to fill in. But she claimed that “she didn’t believe (the teacher) would provide any written materials and (the teammates) would be able to inform me properly of anything that was relevant for my work.” The teacher has been providing written materials and, since we politely chorused at him “in Spanish and b/w it’s worth shit, and please send it beforehand by email so people can read it in advance if they want to,” he’s been sending the stuff beforehand, in color and in something closely-enough resembling English. That’s where I had to cave in, because my BP was starting to go through the roof and smacking idiots at work is illegal.
Aaaaaanyway. As expected, I’m fine today. Thanks Og, Ogette, Hygiene and other folks in care of health the “episodes” normally last one day, tops. If I see one coming at mid-afternoon and I don’t have any meetings, I just leave work early without making any fuss: next day I’m fine.
gt, the neurologist says that although we could go pitbull and run through the whole list of “tests that may or may not detect MS,” it seems less painful to just go with a diagnosis of “Parasympatic System overloads under stress.” He said that, same as other people get colds or the runs when they’re stressed, I happened to hit the jackpot and what goes haywire is the part of the nervous system that regulates all the automatic stuff.
swampy, I’ve got customers and relatives like that ringtone lady. Sometimes it’s because the instructions aren’t as clear for them as for the writer; sometimes the writing is just too small. Sometimes, like my mother, they just don’t follow written instructions well. My mother took a course on how to use the computer, the book is really, completely, totally, written with grandmothers in mind, several of her classmates actually use the book - Mom uses it only as “the place where I jot down the notes.” Trying to get her to actually read the typed parts, fugedaboudit.
You know, rigs, in my first year of college I saw that 3 of the 6 subjects were “pass with my eyes closed,” for 1 I had a language problem, for another I had to work, and the 6th (Calculus) was going to be a bitch. I’d spend Chemistry, Physics and Numeric Calculus multitasking: taking notes for the class (or checking what the prof said against my notes from HS, why kill trees if you already have the material), doodling and doing Calculus exercises. It didn’t save my Calculus grade and could have gotten me in trouble with the other three teachers. Hopefully Son#1 will figure out better ways of pulling up the subjects in which he’s weak.
{{{{{{}}}}}} to diverse people. You can all take a bunch as needed 
Who wants FCM on Monday? Aye if you do!
Aye!
Against?
crickets
The ayes have it.
(In Spanish “ay”, plural “ayes,” is a complaint. Talk about a false friend!)