I know it’s a regionalism, but hearing an adult say “My Daddy” is as jarring as hearing an adult say “My Mommy”.
That’s kind of a weird thing to “find” if I may say so. A strange thing to happen to stumble upon.
Statistics are fun.
A strange thing to worry about. It’s how we called him.
My Daddy. #326
My Daddy. # 327.
(Small potatoes against my number of posts DYK?)
That doesn’t send weird creepy stalker vibes at all.
Using the search function on a word you’ve seen someone use over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over is a pretty low bar for “stalking”.
For some the definition of ‘stalking’ is seeing the same people responding to your posts in multiple threads.
Which, given the size of this message board and the number of active posters, means that unless the thread is, basically, not interesting the frequency of seeing the same group of posters approaches certainty.
I don’t know if it’s possible for the ‘stalking’ bar to get any lower than that.
Especially when the poster responds in practically every thread. Unless you have them on ignore, you will see their posts and notice the same things being said over and over.
Geez, I’d hate to know how many times she used “the.”
Huh. Our fancy-hatted pink cephalopod has only used “hive mind” in fifty-one posts.
Stalker!
Meet Alexander Cruden , God’s stalker
I thought you were referring to me for a second. Make of that what you will.
Aww. You do care.
So, so sweet.
Stalk all you want. I’m worth it.
(Sorry, @What_Exit , I didn’t do it this time. I can’t help it turned into an ‘all about beck thing’)
To be fair, this is not a general thread but a fairly specific one where the OP was not planning to return anyway. Taking over this thread is not something that would bother me. I stopped following it quite a few posts ago.
Eeek!
“Buckle up, it gets bumpy from here!”
I’ve been posting a lot this week and I kind of have this rule of thumb that the more I post on the Straight Dope, the worse my mental health. I’m not saying the Dope causes poor mental health. I can tell you exactly what it is. I use the drama here as a distraction from the anxieties of my daily life. It’s not all bad, sometimes I would just rather be watching or engaging in stimulating conversation than writing three state grant applications. But I’ve been so stressed about these applications and my ongoing concentration difficulties that it goes from a minor distraction to a compulsive behavior.
Does anyone else do this?
(I did well today. I mediated first thing, then I worked six hours straight on those grants with no use of my phone. I told myself I couldn’t post until 3pm. So at least it contains the behavior.)
I once accidentally exposed a sock when someone mentioned somebody who was always talking about Hawaii with a “l”. I pointed out that she probably was thinking of Didi44. Turns out that Didi44 and lyngui were the same person. But their posting styles and repeated subjects were distinctive and obvious enough that while I knew it was the same person I didn’t even notice that he was using two different names. (He was a perfectly cromulent user, not a troll.)
Personally I feel like I’ve struck the right relationship with this message board, recently.
One thing that gets annoying is that I think a lot of people here assume you’re giving your point-of-view in bad faith, or something. A lot of people, (of course, not all), assume you’re absolutely tied to a belief and get nasty right from the start, treating you like a fucking idiot to have dared been under a different impression than them.
Like, right or wrong, treating people so starkly is not often a good method in changing their opinion.