I get what you’re saying. Precisely calculating the value of your time is difficult and even somewhat contextual. Your time costs you more doing something you hate rather than something you’d just rather not do, for example. Running an exact calculation like this all the time may be counterintuitive for a lot of people. So let me see if I can approach this from a slightly different angle that I think is completely consistent with my original point.
I can’t say how you, or any particular person, is making their decision individually. But I can say what I think is a mistake that many people make. It’s hard or uncomfortable to quantify your own time, so you keep it out of the calculation at all, which implicitly values it at 0. You may not want to decide if your leisure time or even your netflix watching time is worth $6.91 per hour or $40 per hour or any other specific number, but I think we can all agree that the quality of that time cannot be worth nothing to you. And yet, if you do not factor in the value of your own time, attention, and enjoyment, and you count them as effectively zero, you’re doing yourself a disservice and getting the wrong result.
The $9 you save by taking the ad free tier of netflix is a concrete, explicit cost. The $0 you’re paying for google instead of $5 for Kagi is also an explicitly named cost. That’s money that’s not coming out of your bank at the end of the month. That’s easy to see the cost. How much involuntary interruption of watching your shows, what is that worth in comparison? It’s hard to say. But hard to say does not mean it shouldn’t be part of the calculation. And you can realize that it’s disproportionate - that it’s clearly wrong - without putting an exact number on your own time’s value. We all know that a nickel an hour is too little, for example, even if we can’t decide what value exactly we want to use.
The fact that google has degraded their results over the last 10 years on purpose because they realized giving users the best result the could back then was costing them money. A user that got the best result right away wasn’t engaging with their website for very long or viewing many ads. And they realized their immediate optimal results, their incentives, were actually to give the user worse service so the user spent more time searching and interacting with their site – that’s also a real cost for the individual and for society in aggregate. That has real costs in your time, your exposure to manipulative tactics, the amount of data you’re leaking to google, and the actual quality of the information you’re receiving. If you could go back and pay $5 a month for google to stay 2018 google, helpful, generally on your side, working as well as they could, would you? Or would you accept that google is worse now and gives you worse results so that you could keep the cost free? I would suggest that if your immediate answer is “easy. free” you’re not really making a calculated choice, you’re answering based on what’s familiar. You’re privileging pure monetary costs, even a small one, over any other factor because that’s what the tech industry has done to our expectations of pricing and services.
You’re not only paying netflix or google or f2p games in money. You’re paying them in time, frustration, enjoyment, quality of information, etc. You’re also “paying” them, in a sense, in distorted incentives and that collectively affects all of us. My overall message is to ask people to notice this and factor them into the decisions you make rather than implicitly not factor them into the decision at all because they’re hard to quantify. You’re paying them not only in your immediate attention, but also in the way that you shape society going forward. Because this chronic miscalculation by huge swaths of the population is what even allows companies to enshittify. It’s one side of the calculations they use to drive their own behavior. If we all value our time and frustration and attention and our desire for quality results too low, then we are creating an incentive for companies to give us products and services that are worse for us. How it’s worse for all of us is difficult to give an exact value to, but we clearly see the negative effects of billions of individuals collectively undervaluing factors other than pure explicit monetary costs.
So you may not want to calculate an exact value for your time, attention, enjoyment, privacy, etc. Fine. But still, count them. In some way. Because if you don’t, you’re implicitly valuing them at zero, and then trading them all for any monetary cost, or for “free” seems rational and serving your own interests when it really is not.