The Joys of Having Grass in the MMP

Happy Thorsday!

It was rainy 52 degrees at the park this morning. I was cold. I should have put on toe warmers. It seems that if my feet are warm the rest of me stays warmer too.
Five people and six dogs, I was surprised Jax, Coco, and Bandit came out in the rain.
Echo caught a bird at the park. I feel sorry for the poor bird, but there isn’t much I can do once she catches one.
Jax was weird today. All he wants to do is play ball. Normally, his dad throws the ball until he gets tired, then he will take the ball to Lily’s mom, who doesn’t throw it so hard. When he’s really tired, he brings the ball to me, because, while it is not PC to say so, I throw like a girl. A very little girl.
Under no circumstances is Urban’s dad allowed to throw the ball, because he throws it over the pavilion and it still ends up all the way out at the fence. Jax will flip out if he tries to get the ball.
Jax wouldn’t let anybody throw the ball today but me. His dad wasn’t too happy because the idea is to wear Jax out, and he will never get tired with me throwing the ball.
Then Ripple was acting weird because every time Jax came to me, Ripple would push him out of the way. Ripple is never jealous when I pet other dogs, but he didn’t like it today.

Good thing I haven’t done my taxes yet. I got a form from the IRS earlier this week, and my son got another form today. No idea what it is though, I didn’t have time to do more than glance at it.
I’m seriously considering getting somebody to do them this year.

My mother is sounding a lot better. Her voice is stronger and she sounds more like herself. I still have trouble following her conversations though. I think she is considering getting chemo, she’s waiting to see what the doctor says at her next appointment.
Our plan is to go down to visit on Tuesday.

I need to have a talk with her anyway. A hard talk that one of my cousins and two of my friends are pushing me to have with her… her will.
I know the basics is that everything is to be sold and the money split. However, Niece2, her ex, and her two younger boys live in my mother’s house. Her two older boys live there part time. Some time back, long before my mother was sick, the topic came up (I wasn’t there, so nobody asked me) and everybody thinks I’ll let my niece continue to live there and not force the sale of the house.
That is a no. I don’t want to sound like a greedy bitch about it, but no. I am not giving up my or my son’s share, so she can continue to live there, and I know she will not be able to come up with the money to buy the house.
I need to talk with my mother about it while she is still aware.
I mentioned it on the phone and my mother said she had brought it up to my niece.
Then she said, everybody seems to think she is going to live forever.
I thought she’d have at least another ten years.

Hugs to Overlyboy, I hope the surgery went well.

Happy Birthday Alex-Catt

Ooopsie, sux about the credit card. That is why I have several credit cards, and several checking accounts. If something happens to one of them, I have another to fall back on.

Hippie, I think your quilt is beautiful. I started one once using the method you are using. I never finished it though and I lost the pieces long ago. I was making Grandma’s Flower Garden.

There was an English Bulldog that came to the park, his name was Romeo. We would get such a kick out of him. He was really fast for a pudgy butt. His dad was easy on the eyes, but then I have a weakness for nice dreads.

There used to be a store dog in a bakery for pets, but the store is gone now. The dog was an English Bulldog named Guinness. He was adorable.

@Sahirrnee

My first encounter with English Paper Piecing was a guy at a quilt show. He showed me how hexagons could be made into Grandma’s Flower Garden. I started with that but soon modified it into a personal design. I worked on it for a bit and then realized that I had bought incredibly cheap polyester material. I scrapped that and started the one I am on the verge of finishing. I kept that design in the back of my head and I have bought twelve yards of material to do it justice as my next project.

Thanks! I think that part of it is just the supply chain issues, but the other part is that I do make very good cheese. When I’m not trying to make Cheddar. Our housekeeper’s Golden Retriever refused to even try my last Cheddar.

GG has that one figured out. He follows VBC while she’s rolling it and grabs the treat as soon as he hears it hitting the floor.

Ya better stop by! I’ll open a Caerphilly in your honor :slight_smile:

We have only formally adopted one pet. All of our others kinda appeared on our doorstep or followed us home. Not only did Brandy the St. Bernard follow me home, she snuck into the back seat of my car to get there.

When I was volunteering with a rescue group, they paid for one of my strays to have a broken jaw fixed and he recovered with us. Of course we couldn’t give up a 6 week foster, so despite the rescue leader telling us to just keep him, we wanted to fill out the paperwork because we had never done that before.

George was not an adoption.

I really should have, but the agreement was that if he got jabbed and boosted, I wouldn’t get any pets without both of us making the choice.

That is wonderful! You must be so stressed out about not getting the straight dope about everything.

You don’t sound like a greedy bitch and I fully support you. There is absolutely no reason to compromise your financial situation by allowing the niece to stay there rent free. She’s probably not taking care of the house already, but the estate will be responsible for the maintenance.

Oh, ouch. As you know, the finished project is only as good as the materials. I made this about 35 years ago. It was expensive, but I’m really happy I choose to use quality materials.

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Evening all. Did the gym stuff, then watched the Europa League soccer and NCAA Basketball for most of the afternoon. Went out to watch the littles play soccer, but got depressed with the organization (or lack thereof). They brought in a couple of visitors from elsewhere to help train, and while one of them isn’t bad, the other is pretty useless (IMHO) so I feel depressed about it. So did some shopping and mailed a bill and let Mickey D take care of dinner.

MG, it is good to see you around these parts again. Don’t be a stranger.

Oopsie, hope the Credit card gets cleaned up quickly. I have two, just in case. Today they both got denied when I tried to purchase an AMTRAK ticket for May, but one of them contacted me by e-mail and asked if effect “did you really want to purchase this?” and then let me do it.

Unknown, good news on the cheese. No plans for Arizona in the near future, but if you ever want to export your skills to Ali-bama, y’all let me know…

Sari, glad Mom-unit is doing better, hope things get straightened out regarding the will.

VanGo, I hope the wages are worth the laborer in this case. EAT!

Talkie, glad things are going well with overlyboy.

OK, just looked at the clock and it’s 9:40pm already. Need to finish internettin’ and then do my night readin’ before bedtime. All y’all take care.

Admittedly, I haven’t tried Ensure Max. Just the extra protein one.
(And that description comes the closest to how I can describe the flavour, heh.)

As for how I’ve been, I’ve been feeling sad this week, I think. A friend of mine died. I haven’t been in the best health, but I have an appointment about that next week.
Feeling a lot of emotions, basically.

A long, busy day. I’m putting my stuff last cause you all are so important to me:

nameless, don’t wait that long! I’ve been hacked twice, and when CC company told me 7-10 days, I said theirs was my only credit card, and I couldn’t, just couldn’t, go that long without it. Both times they overnighted a new card, and I got it the next day. Call and see if that works for you.

EmilyG, welcome back! I’m sorry you’re not feeling so great, but may I say I think this…

is the best bad-food description ever?

wordy, whew on overlyboy’s surgery! I hope he heals quickly and well and that life is immeasurably better for him post-op.

Don’t talk of stars
Burning above;
If you’re in love,
Show me!
Tell me no dreams
Filled with desire.
If you’re on fire,
Show me!

Eliza Doolittle would be envious of your gifts from your main squeeze.

I walked to the dentist today and back again–6 miles. My teeth and gums got an A. I felt energetic when I got home despite not sleeping well last night, so I took the bus to the hardware store, as I need more sandpaper. The guy at the checkout counter said, “You’re so nice, I’m going to give you these,” and put two big bottles of hand sanitizer in my bag. They were the half-used ones on the counter. Weird, no? Also, I have about a gallon of hand sanitizer and didn’t need any more. Give me a potted carnation any time.

I fell asleep on the bus home and almost missed my stop. I wanted to respond to more of you, but I’m about asleep again.

{{{Mumpers}}}

He also went out of his way to buy them from my favorite plant nursery instead of grabbing them at a random store while he was driving his friend around for his weekly shopping trip.

I know what love feels like :slight_smile:

nellie I’m glad things are going well, even if strange young men are throwing partially used bottles of hand sanitizer at you.

Unknown I think you have won the jackpot. You should get another kitten anyway. :grin:

You are evil. I like that in a person.

Up, caffeinated, and sheveled. Off to heave.

I’m sorry about your friend, MG.

sari, you’re not being a bitch about it. Especially if it was already decided. Hopefully it’s in the will.

Unknown, all my dogs are on purpose adoptions. The cats have been happy accidents.

Both the cats I’ve had in my adult life were intentional shelter adoptions. My previous bird just showed up at the doorstep injured, cold, and in need of care. The current bird was a purchase (DH insisted we needed another dove).

And Alex Catt is curently hunting her own tail

I’ve had cats who did that, caught the tail, then were shocked at being hurt when they bit it.

sari - I agree with everyone else - you’re not being a bitch about the house. Even with wills, people can turn ugly when in inheritances are concerned. My sister’s husband and two of his sibs ended up in a battle with the other brother who was trying to pull a fast one. He wanted to buy their mother’s house at a ridiculously low price while he had a buyer lined up to net him a tidy profit. Lawsuits were involved, but the sister who was executor didn’t put up with his shit and as I recall, the legal fees came out of his share in the end. FWIW, it was some prime waterfront in Annapolis, so a few $$$ were involved. Moral of the story - make sure it’s in writing and don’t assume everyone will play fair.

Woke from a disturbing dream again - this time, we were trying to exchange a wheelchair (?? We don’t have any wheelchairs here…) and after waiting a ridiculously long time at the store, I discovered that the one we’d brought in had been taken away, but they didn’t have a replacement for us and no one bothered to tell us. I woke up pissed!!! :rage: I hate starting my day enraged over a stupid dream.

Today, we head to Oxford again. We’ve got a special coating to put on the propeller and its supporting structure - a mostly zinc product so it’ll be like galvanizing those metal parts. Unfortunately, you have to wait at least 24 hours between coats, so we’ll have to go back on Sunday (we already had plans for Sat) to finish the job. Dammit.

While we’re there today, I’ll put the repaired bimini back on, and we’ll put the dock lines aboard. Daughter and the kids will be making the crossing with us when we bring it back. SIL doesn’t want to come, but he and his brother will drive over to drop them off, then they’ll bring our car back. That’ll save us at least one trip across the bay. Plus we’ll have a car waiting for us at the marina. But that’s still 2 weeks off. Holy crap - just 2 weeks!!

Anyway, I think I’ve finally calmed down from my rude awakening. < deep cleansing breath >

Happy Firday!

Good Mornin’ Y’all! Up and caffeinatin’. YAWN 'Tis 52 Amurrkin with a DENSE FOG ADVISORY in effect until ten a.m. (it is indeed densely foggy out) with a predicted high of 73 and rainy off and on for the day. This afternoon I shall betake myself over to the church house to cook corned beast, peal/chop various veggies and so forth. Sup will be a forage the fridge kind of thing.

MG welcome back! Sorry about your friend and sorry for your health woes. Hope the doc can help you out. Come play with us some more!

Nellie I have to say I would never have thought to use hand sanitizer for flirtation purposes. He does not want you to have germy hands. How Sweet!

sari you are not bein’ a bitch about it at all. You need to protect your son and yourself. The niece does not deserve a free house out of it as I presume she is a grown ass adult and can take care of herself.

MOOOOOOM I hate it when I wake up all poed because of a dream.

Now I need more caffeine and to feed rumbly tummy. Then, onward into the day! Rah.

Happy Firday Y’all!

Morning all. Woke up to rain pouring down and it’s likely to stick around for another 3 hours or so, so swimmin’ will probably be this afternoon. Paper has been rescued from the Monsoon (they do wrap the paper in plastic so it’s dry) and pills taken (tying these messages early most every day makes me remember to take them). Nothing much on the schedule, need to fill out some paper-irk for my will.

Don’t think I’ll have any problems Will-wise, everything goes to brother and wife, and if I outlive them, divided evenly between my niece and nephews. Still, being family, best have it in writing…

MG {{{ }}}

FCM, sounds like the boating life will be keeping you busy.

Unknown, I think you have a keeper…

Nellie, ain’t ever going to try and out-walk you…glad both dentist and clerk like you.

OK, need to do the morning internettin’ and then consider breaking fast. All y’all take care.

I’m sorry about your friend and your health issues emily.

Up, caffeinating, breakfasted, a load of towels ready for the dryer and a load of jeans on deck. Usual Friday plans of housework and grocery shopping slated.

I woke up verrrrrrry late considering my current irk schedule (0700 :open_mouth: ).

When I lived with the guy that I spent several years of doing hippy stuff with, we purchased a bassett puppy and a golden retriever that was pet quality rather than show quality (Chamois was a great dog and was the perfect companion for his kids). Cats that I’ve had have been strays, ones that were rehomed with me or barn cats. When I moved to my current apartment, I knew that pets were allowed, so I began looking at small dog rescues and shelters for a senior. Then Sis called and asked if I’d be open to a puppy. :smiley: Seems like she was expecting not one, but two litters shortly when she inherited her late SIL’s two rat terrier mixes after her death. Nelson was born on 29 Apr 2017 from the first litter (he was the only one in that litter) and I received pictures of him about the time he was dry. I fell in love and said yes. It took a couple of days to come up with a name and three months before I got to meet him in person, but he’s been my companion since. Once I retire, I may find him a sib, but we’ll see.

My sister in Chicago is my dad’s executor, but knowing how the sister in California operates Dad has been gifting his estate gradually while he’s alive to avoid having her tie up the damn thing for years and have it all go to attorneys. My will is pretty simple, having Sis in Texas as executor and leaving pretty much everything to charity (believe me, there won’t be much left unless I hit the lottery :stuck_out_tongue: ).

Stay safe and healthy y’all!

Good morning everyone.

emily, I’m sorry about the loss of your friend and your health problems.

chef, my second home purchase was easy-breezy, lemon-squeezy. Seriously, made an offer on my current house, sold my old house, and moved into this house all within 20 days. I couldn’t believe it was so easy.

sari, trust me. Have your mom make sure the will is current. People turn so ugly when there is a potential for money or property. It took us eight months to evict my husband’s niece from my MiL’s house. The house which she essentially destroyed. It cost us thousands of dollars to clean up and repair and lost time to get it on the market. Not to mention all the stuff she stole to sell for drugs. Damn bitch, I hate her and will never forgive her for the heartache she caused my husband. On top of all that, my husband’s two half-sisters were constantly calling us and asking about their part of the inheritance, but did nothing to help pay for anything. Nothing; we paid for her burial, casket, service, the house clean-up and repair, the purchase of new appliances for the house, everything. We had a lawyer to make sure all was above board and no one could come after us. We paid for that too. Get a will that’s current and make sure the niece is no longer living in that house, or you will spend months and lots of money to get her out.

Either today or tomorrow I will run errands and buy fixings for whatever dinner I plan to make when the family comes over on Sunday. I haven’t decided on the menu. I need to get Polar’s special biscuits and more doggy ice cream. The vet said Polar is doing pretty well, all things considered. His heart and lungs sound good. He has a little tarter build-up on his teeth, but that’s because he won’t chew on stuff to help clean it off. I’m going to have to attempt brushing his teeth.

I hope overlyboy is recovering today.

Well, onward with the day. Need to clean up and become presentable for the public.