Shmeh. You might find it ridiculous but my gf likes it, and she’s much more likely to fuck me than any of you, so I can’t really say I care what anyone else thinks.
I like it on women. A co-worker came in with a messy head the other day, and I told her she looked great, what had she done with her hair?
“Slept on it.”
I had no idea so many people were against it. It’s the only real hairstyle I find attractive.
It only looks good when it’s not intentional. Gelling your hair to make it that way is just wrong.
And it works so well with your new eyeball exposure.
What?
Naw, ain’t hardly nothing ridiculous if it gets you some.
For those of you trying for the messy look, have you ever been hanging around the house or about to go to bed and notice you’ve mussed your hair inadvertantly, but perfectly? It’s fabulous like it took hours at the best salon. That’s when I say to myself, ‘You know there is no chance it’ll be that way tomorrow.’ It always comes true, too. Dangit.
I like the look enough on my husband to have taken scissors to his hair, at his request, to give him an unevenly shaggy haircut. He doesn’t spend time styling it, it has as much ornery wave as mine does, so tousled is just how it ends up. He’s had so many compliments on that damn cut and I can’t even cut in a straight line.
Put it this way-- it’s more attractive than a guy who has an equal amount of gel in his hair with comb lines in it. I hate comb lines and overly combed-looking hair. Ditto overly mussed hair, but in general, sorta touseled is pretty cute.
My gf says that it’s the only kind of hair she likes on guys.
I think it is the modern day mullet. The proof will come in 10 years time when the teenage kids are laughing at photos of dad with his gelled cock’s comb and dad is thinking, “Did I really think that looked cool?”
In fact I think I will gel my hair at work tomorrow into an Astroboy shape as a pisstake.
This is great news! Now Evil Captor Jr. and I have something to say to Mrs. Evil Captor when she tells us, “You can’t go out of the house looking like that! Brush your hair! You look like you stuck your head in a blender!”
We can say, “Don’t harsh our buzz, Mrs. Evil! We’re stylin’. This is the tousled look.”
I suppose a guy whose beard ALSO looks tousled looks extra super hot …
I like that it’s in style simply because I hate combing my hair and can go out in public without doing so.
I will bemoan the day it goes out of style.
I do kind of like it. A guy who can pull it off comme il faut looks a lot better like that than he would as a greaser.
Sorry, I disagree. I wouldn’t kick him out of bed as is, but a cut and a comb would behoove him.
I actually don’t own a brush or comb or blow dryer. A bit of gel or curling cream (or even a dab of conditioner in a pinch) and 3.5 seconds using just my fingers is all it takes to do my hair in the morning after my shower. 
On weekends, morning hair gets me an endless stream of orgasmic sighs and lustful looks from my gf. Quite often, we end up in bed again after our first coffee. 
It wouldn’t work on me, I’m sure, but I like it.
I don’t really have an opinion one way or another, but I’ve been told by a couple girls I know, whose opinions I respect, that it would look good on me. Sadly, though I tried it a time or two, I simply couldn’t get my hair to cooperate.
(Occasionally, however, after working out at the gym and forgetting to comb my hair, my hair kind of does it on its own accord.) :smack: