Honestly everyone, The “Perfect Girl” is one who is true to herself and others:)
sigh Guess I’ll just have to wait a couple of days to find out more about dpr. I’ll be over here in the corner when you get done moving. Here’s good karma thoughts that your move isn’t horrific, babe!
We delved into romantic idealizations of a soulmate in the
Interesting questions thread.
Borrowing from one of my posts from that thread, this is the way I conceptualize my soulmate, i.e., the perfect girl, the woman of my dreams, the one who completes me:
*"First and foremost, she must display a beautiful smile. To me a smile is a window into the soul, it manifests a girl’s true feelings and echoes her innermost secrets. A sweet, heart-warming smile enchants me, captivates me as if it were a magical spell of passion.
Accompanying that sky-brightening smile should be the sweetness and cuteness that such an enchanting, natural facial expression reflects. When she speaks, the magical tone of her voice shall be forever impregnated in my soul and resonate through eternity in my heart. When she looks at me I would melt at the glimpse of such a fascinating stare; the privilege of being graced by her attention summoning me to eternal and incommensurable love and devotion.
A most would have to be a good sense of humor, an ability to laugh at herself, to not care about what other people think, to enjoy the most idiotic jokes, to disregard conventionalisms, to be free, natural, true to herself. I find it that humor allows you to abstract from the reality of day to day existence and enter the realm of fantasy, of the imaginary. By laughing, stress disappears and good nature surfaces, the burden of your worries dissipates in the mysterious domains of infinity, peace and spiritual satisfaction replacing them and filling your heart with joy.
A zest for life, an appreciation for all the beautiful things we encounter in this beautiful oasis in space we call home, an enjoyment of nature, a curiosity towards unraveling the mysteries of our existence; they all should be comprised within the spectra of qualities displayed by the person to whom I lend my heart to: my soulmate.
Completing her idealized conceptualization would be external beauty, not necessarily in the form of a gorgeous, voluptuous blonde, but manifested through a sweet, innocent-looking girl.
But of course that is just my excessively idealistic, over-romanticized fantasy. A nice way to summarize the above mentioned conceptualization of a soulmate would be this: Katie Holmes, Natalie Portman or Drew Barrymore. Now, why didn’t I think about that before? "*
Unfortunately, as of right now, I have not found her. Hope that such an idealistic conceptualization materializes soon and transforms the solitude residing in my heart into an unbridled display of passion and eternal love.
Off to sleep now; maybe the love that evades me in the real world will manifest itself through the magical, yet elusive, land of dreams where fantasies are fulfilled and joy reigns supreme. :rolleyes:
Yoda or Yogurt? A dilemma for the ages.
Hey Nym,
The move wasn’t too horrific - a few hiccups as is normal but on the whole relatively painless. Now comes the unpacking which could take a few days or a few months…
About me? I’m 30 yo, love smiles, honesty and broccoli. I’ll try nearly anything once and am often found neck deep in trouble or mischief. Any other questions?
What have you tried that you don’t regret, but aren’t willing to do again?
I regret very little of what I’ve done. After all that’s what defines me as I am now. But a few indescretions with the law as a youngster (minor but against what I belive in) and falling in love with an engaged woman.
Not that you can always control who you fall in love with…
… would (a) respect and care for herself (b) respect and care for others.
Damn, way to bump the thread again, dpr. Now I’m fondly remembering the first time I persued you. Who knew it would become an ongoing task? 
Hey , I think I am all of the above mentioned things, plus I can cook like Martha Stewart.
So, how come no one wants me? 
Well in response to the current thread entitled “What you love most about your gf” I thought I’d bump my perfect girl and point out that my fiance meets the criteria.
Then I noticed this (posted in November last year):
Who knew indeed hon? Spoken with the accuracy of Cassandra, but with a happier ending.
Thanks to dpr for bumping this thread so a newbie like me can get in on it.
I am not one to make an exhaustive list-I suspect I will meet the girl of my dreams first and then retrofit my list to her to a large extent-however:
The three b’s-brains, beauty, and bisexuality 
“The Bible says, `The truth shall make you free.’ But let’s not forget it
was Spiro Agnew who said that a good lie will keep you out of jail in the
first place.” -A. Whitney Brown