I had a fight with my SO, and later I was thinking about who was in the right or wrong in the situation. Obviously, I am biased toward myself, so I had to try to think neutrally.
My method: If I posted about the incident in the pit, would I get flamed? If yes, I am in the wrong. If no, he is.
I liked the idea at the time, but now…
I’m scared. This board is taking over my brain now, not just a great deal of my spare time! Arrghhhh…
(Does anyone else do this?)
No, but I could suggest a good place to put something where you’re asking for opinion as to right and wrong might be In My Humble Opinion forum. Hope it all gets sorted out, Burnt Sugar.
Well, post it in the pit, and if he doesn’t believe he’s in the wrong then just refer him to the thread and we’ll have a chat with him. 
In all seriousness though, I hope you’re able to sort everything through and maybe you should consider Ice’s suggestion if you feel the need to write about it.