Happy Moonday!
Nice cool, although wet, 67 degrees at the park this morning. Not a lot of people were there, no surprise considering how wet it was.
I finally saw the (unneutered male) mastiff whose owner likes to dump him in the park while he sits in his car smoking pot and blasting his stereo. Explains all the BIG piles in the park. The dog seems nice even if the owner is an asshole. A little tense for me as Echo wants to fight him (the dog) and that is not a fight I want to break up. She’s fine as long as he stays away from me, but he wants attention from everybody.
The dogs took being boarded well. I splurged on daycare during the day with boarding overnight. They said Ripple did well. I was afraid he might go all Cujo on them when they put him in the kennel. Poor babies were worn out exhausted when I got them. They slept for two days. Other than going to the park, I didn’t see them all day.
The viewings and funeral were nice and not emotional. The service was generic, just plug in the name kind of thing.
The oldest grandnephew is not taking it well. The second oldest is quieter and stoic. The two youngest woke up with fevers the morning of the funeral, so their father had to stay home with them.
I skipped the limo and I’m glad I did. I told my son to go ride in it so he’d be with the other pallbearers. He said never again.
Niece1’s husband is 6’4" and weighs about 400 pounds, my son was squished between him and the door.
I’m just glad it’s all over and I can get back to some normalcy around here.
The nastiness of the estate has already begun.
I feel a bit guilty because I am the one making a fuss right now. My mother had set something aside for me and my sister ‘took it for safe keeping’ because Niece2’s ex has had a substance problem in the past and she said she was afraid he would steal it.
Uh huh, yeah right, she has had it for weeks and hasn’t given it to me. I know it was a bullshit excuse to take it and she will not give it back. My mother and nieces defended her, because you know, whatever… and of course, I am the bad person in all of this because, well, it’s not a big deal.
Anyway, my nieces said property taxes were coming due and they couldn’t find the bills and could I find out when and how much. I don’t know why they asked me when my sister is a realtor, or used to be one anyway. Simple search and I had the information and sent it to them. I thought my mother had sold the property she has up this way, it’s actually over an hour further west of here, so about 3 hours from the armpit. When I sent the tax info, I said when the land needs to be sold, I know a realtor up this way who knows that area.
Somehow, that and wanting the item back, has turned into ‘we didn’t hate her (my mother) like you do and you even got a realtor before she was even cold in the ground’.
The realtor is a friend, I didn’t go looking for one.
I am royally pissed by that comment, and my response was going to be a BIG F’ YOU, but I decided not to throw fuel on the fire.
They are meeting with the lawyer tomorrow. I don’t want to go, but I need to get his name.
Anyway, sorry to dump on all of you.
I have a lot of catching up to do around here.
I have a lot of catching up to do around the house.