Frankie, what’s really a shame is that BunnyGirl is married!!
:0 Ooh, I’m blushing!
Dougie, I agree with Rich. Finding a professional to talk to may help you understand yourself better and open yourself up to new experiences.
Leslie, if you buy the cherries, I’ll provide the lessons free of charge…then we’ll impress all the bar flys!
:o
Doggone it, which one worked?
I feel overwhelmed… 
As far as the bra bit is concerned…of course, I have not had the courage to try to do this myself, but theroetically at least it should be possible to unkhook a bra from * inside * the top–dress top, blouse, or whatever. Unhooking the back center (or front center) clasp and then the buckles on the front should loosen the entire bra so that, once it is slipped directly off the bosom (and I bet a lot of guys would enjoy it if they could get away with this!!) The bra should be easy to pull out from under the outer garment, at the top or bottom of the garment or even out through a sleeve or armhole. (I think Jennifer Beals did this in * Flashdance, * slowly unhooking and removing her bra out from under her sweatshirt in front of the guy while talkinig to him; she * must * have made him really passionate–deliberately!!)
I * had * been going to a psychiatrist, until there was a billing mix-up (that’s a story in itself) and I could no longer have sessions. The last session was five years ago. 
(I qualify for Medicare and the California Medicaid supplement, Medi-Cal.)
The kind things Kellibelli and the others have said have made damn good sense to me! I wish someone who feels that way would contact me by e-mail, at montgomerydou55@hotmail.com.